Is it ok to save picutres of your ex girlfriend?

[sillyshow675]

My boyfriend of 6 months recently detagged all the coupley pictures of he and his ex from facebook because they made me feel uncomfortable. However i recently found out that he saved all of these pictures onto his computer so he would not lose them. I dont understand why he would need these if he was over his ex.

[Peter ian Staker]

face it he still likes her !

[the madcap laughs]

he wants to keep the good memories/he's not over her. That's all there is to it

[navy1]

He just wants to save the memories, nothing wrong with that

[ChocoBoy]

Nah,i don't think so

[April]

Maybe hes just sentimental like that

[Choco]

Omg, why is there a need to save. Unless there is a group of people inside the pics too.
He should move on and keeping ex pics to remind him of her???

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...152AAgdwfj

[Lucas]

If you date someone long enough, they start to be one of your best friends. Its understandable that even though he's not dating her, he'd still want to save those memories.

[Garry]

Whoa little less insecurity here! He kept them because they were a happy MEMORY as in his past as in GONE as in PAST as in NO MORE!!! etc etc. Do you have pictures from your past, things you did with friends etc well there is no difference here at all IT IS IN THE PAST! Give him new memories and good ones and those pictures will suddenly vanish!

[Milton]

People like to save memories even if they are past the event or the person in the picture. It doesn't necessarily mean that he has any present feelings for her but he did at the time.

I have a yearbook from HS that has pictures in it of several girls i went with during that four years of my life. Should I cut out their pictures just because I married someone else? One of the girls went on to become a minor film star. Should I not go to movies in which she has small parts?

It has to be judged in the context of how does he relate to the past. If he has a shrine to her and lights candles over her pictures, you don't have a boyfriend, you have a maniac. If he simply keeps memories of the past, he is normal and it doesn't mean he will leave you for her or even cares about her.

Judge him by how he acts. Is he kind and considerate of your needs? Does he flirt with other girls? Is he there for you when you need him? Does he give you any reason to distrust him in any behavior like secret phone calls or things other say about what they see when you aren't there? If the answer to all of these is positive, you have nothing to worry about. If it is negative, it has
nothing to do with her,he just is untrustworthy!

Best of luck. Judge him by what he DOES, not by what pictures from his past he saved.