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SERIOUSLY PLEASE HELP ME? PLEASE? Have I done something wrong here?
10-02-2012, 06:08 AM
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SERIOUSLY PLEASE HELP ME? PLEASE? Have I done something wrong here?
PLEASE PLEASE Please tell me, have I done something wrong by messaging him? I don't want to be in the category of homewreckers, sl-t, etc

He is a celebrity that i follow on Twitter for a few years now. Met him on Twitter but he didn't have a big following at that time. He's gained popularity since. When I met him he would flirt with me and reply to my messages. Then as he became more popular, he grew distant and hardly ever replied. I wasn't surprised and I also got too busy to message so I left. He was a lot more active when I messaged him, but when I took a break, his activity also dropped. When I came back, he became more active again. He is married to a woman whom he got pregnant with before marriage.

I said that he is vain and he took offence and blocked me. I made another account and after a few weeks, he blocked me again. Finally, I stopped messaging him and he started sending all of these depressed sad messages about him being lonely and updating his status quoting songs like Elvis's are you lonesome tonight do you miss me tonight, etc. I finally wrote to him and asked if he was okay and said that he was really cruel to block me like that. He replied back and said that he appreciated the love and that he blocked me because he couldn't read the other messages that were being sent to him. He never replies and if he does, he does it rarely. I think this was his way of apologizing...the same day after I messaged him, he started sending cheerful updates again.

Is he emotionally cheating? have I done something wrong here? Even when he's on vacations he keeps updating his twitter and his friends say that he constantly looks at his twitter. I have seen that when I message him, he tweets thereafter or close to when I message.
Oh my gosh - I was trying to put it in the relationship section, sorry, my mistake. If you could answer would appreciate it a lot. Thank you!

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10-02-2012, 06:16 AM
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he is not emotionally cheating... if he was emotionally cheating, he would be messaging you things that would imply he wanted to be with you. it sounds like he is straight up ignoring you because you are sending him tons of messages. it sounds like you guys weren't even together in the first place? you met him and were friends. he was a little bit flirty. that doesn't mean he wants to be with you or ever wanted to be with you. if he is flirty messaging you now, then it could be emotional cheating or he could be a douchebag. but you should really back off. he impregnated and married a girl. don't bother. move on and find someone who makes you happy. honestly, it sounds like hes ignoring you because he thinks you're crazy.

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10-02-2012, 06:16 AM
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Just keep flattering him, giving him attention, and everything will be fine.

If you expect too much in return or are critical then why would he like you?

I mean are you really in any position to have expectations of him...aren't you lucky he even considers you at all?

Just stay realistic and you will be fine.
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