What would you do? Tell your mother about all the bad things your sister did or keep those evil little secrets

[Jaydee R. Doc]

Your older sister is leaving for college and she's super awesome!! But then your other sister (let's just call her Nicole) is still staying with you. Nicole is not the best sister to have; she has a boyfriend that's going to college pretty soon, and she often sneaks out of night and goes with him and another group of friends without any of my family knowing. Then, everyday she goes on facebook and aim 24/7, ignoring about everything, including you. When it comes to swimming parties when our parents are not around, she wears the most revealing bikini she has and she gets all mushy gushy with her boyfriend and takes pictures and puts that in facebook. Every time you want to do something, all she wants to do is facebook, aim, facebook, aim, facebook, aim, sneak out, party with boyfriend, sneak out, and facebook again... along with aim. It's like she only wants her 19 year old boyfriend (she's 16) and another bunch of friends who help her get away with things that our family does not accept (especially my mom), but never wants to be with you. She shares, I think, about one tenth of her secrets which includes going onto the roof in the middle of the night to get into her boyfriend's car and drive away to party.

I'm 12 and she's the last sister I got. There are many more secrets, but here's the question: Would you keep those evil little secrets, or tell your mother, who just wants to protect her?

I know if I did tell my mom, Nicole would never love me again, but she would do more of these bad things such as climbing onto our roof which is about 25 feet off the ground.

[massivebike575]

I know it's a little hard, but the best thing to do is tell your mom...my sister did the same thing (sneaking out with FRIENDS), but i was kind of scared because she went to Mexico which was a whole different country (we lived in Arizona...very close to Mexico about 30 to 45 min. away) and i NEVER told my mom...she eventually found out and i was happy i didn't go behind my sister's back or worry my mom. On the other hand YOUR sister is sneaking out with her BOYfriend...and that could possibly lead to an unexpected pregnancy. So IF i was in your situation i would tell my parents.

[ruaryx]

My sister is kinda like that..
In MY opinion, I'd just ignore all of that. I mean, what can you gain from revealing her secrets? Just make sure not to follow her example when you grow up..

Or maybe you can talk to your sister and tell her how you feel? I personally wouldn't feel comfortable doing this, but it might be the way to go, depending on your relationship with "Nicole".

[TeeJay]

Well that is a hard decision. I had to keep some secrets about my older secrets when I was your age, it's just a part of being a younger sibling. If you are worried about your sister, you should tell your mom. And tell your mom in a way that wouldn't make it obvious to your sister that it was you. Like tell you're mom about her while she's out, so when she comes back they can catch her. And if you're sister finds out that it was you she will be pissed, but she'll eventually forgive you. You were just worrying about your sister, and there's nothing wrong with that. Good Luck!

[Dai D]

I know U probably don't wanna be no snitch and that it would be hard but U need 2 tell ur parents be4 somethin bad happen 2 ur sister because she ain't actin right.

[Tori]

Im 13 and i would probably tell my parents bc she could get hurt or do something against the law and i think she is to young to be going to party's none stop. Also if your worried tht your sister will hate you forever, she may thank you in the long run. dont rely on my advice, but i definately think u should tell your parents.

[deknowsit]

Leverage is POWER and if the 'evil' little secrets are good secrets, then you never know when you might need to blackmail someone. ;-)

Besides, you may not believe it, but one day you may want to do something that your parents don’t like and you will want to fly under their radar. It may help you to help your sister keep the dirty little secrets.

One more thing, make certain that she knows you keep them. Don’t just come out and say it and NEVER use it in a threatening manner, but find a way to make certain she KNOWS you are covering for her. She will appreciate it and it could help you one day. That said, keep good notes as to what she does. Proof is better leverage then just worlds. LOL

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