What does it mean when your boyfriend refuses to speak to you or to see you but won't break up with you?

[Daisy]

My boyfriend has been with me for 3 months and I thought he was the lovliest person ever. But he's stopped texting me and has made excuses not to see me for the last three weekends. He says on the few occasions he has spoken that he is depressed and won't talk to anyone but he keeps going on facebook. He won't speak to me but he hasn't taken the relationship off Facebook either. What does it mean and should I break up with him?

[shawn91111]

Nah, lets just continue to not see him or speak to him


-Shawn

[Abby]

If you know where he lives, go to him and talk in person. That is, if you really care for him. He might really be depressed and doesn't know how to face you. If on the other hand, he looks fine when you see him (meaning doesn't look depressed) then he doesn't wanna be with you anymore and doesn't know how to tell you. Btw Facebook isn't a good way to see how he feels. I'm sorry. Good luck!