I hurt my ex girlfriend alot and I spoke to my other ex girlfriend on facebook ?

[shawn]

I'm 19 my ex girlfrien is also 10 I spoke to my other exgirlfriend on facebook and she saw the messag. I hurt her alot and cheated on her once nd she took me back I haven't cheated again ever and I told her the same day it happened. Because I spoke to my other ex girlfriend she will be my friend but she will only be with me if I put a ring on her finger . My question is if she just wants a ring on her finger but not marriage should I do it?

[Roxanne S]

Wait, she'll only be your friend, yet she wants a rind on her finger from you? I personally don't think you should do it. She's just jealous but she's going to get over it because if you're both friends and nothing more, then she can't really say much about it. You're both able to talk to who you want. I can understand if the other ex is the one you cheated on her with, but even then still-you're able to talk to who you want. She has to move on and find someone else, and you should as well if you're still not over her. Or you guys could try dating again. It all depends. But don't do what you're not comfortable doing or what you don't want to do. That's just really silly in my opinion. You should only do it to the woman you know you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. It's a huge step and a really big commitment.

Good luck