Why cant my sister understand we have different lives?

[Rocco Raccoon]

I'm 19 and she's 21. She's always scolding me for things I say in person and on Facebook
Its my life, why can't she leave me the phuck alone. I'm not her

[Olivia]

maybe she just wants you to turn out to be a good person? my family does the same too me but at the same time you should tell her how you feel about it

[Barking Hobbit]

She sounds like a judgmental person. I would tell her to mind her own business. Unfortunately we cannot pick our family, but we can choose supportive friends that will not judge.

[eleanor rigby]

i'm sure it's frustrating, but the truth is she's just being an older sister. i know how it is because i am one! but look at it this way - she loves you so she cares about you and what you're doing, and that's why we nag all the time! just let it roll off your shoulders.