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juicyfruit8 · 11-09-2012, 05:05 PM

I went out with this guy for like 6 months on and off it was fun at first but then he got weird and texted me weird stuff i put up with it for a little and we got closer and he didnt seem as bad and we madeout and that made him even more obbsessed. I got really fed up with him so i quit talking to him and blocked him of facebook. The other night my friends were invited to his house and i of coarse was not but i felt really left out. Was it right to quit talking to him?

C L · 11-09-2012, 05:13 PM

Yes he seems to be getting EXTREMELY needy but u need to tell him it's over if u haven't already

Joshua J · 11-09-2012, 05:13 PM

It seems as though he invited your friends over to his home and not you purposely. Your reaction is just what he wanted from you, to force you to come back to him. Even now he will attempt to turn you friends from you. Remember if they turn away from you then they were never your friends from the beginning. All this shows you is that you did the right thing by leaving this person alone. If they truely care for you then this would not be the reaction. This also shows you what type of person he would be later in life with you when he is not getting his way. What ever in life do not make you comfortable with yourself then something must be wrong with it.

Do not allow others to make you feel uncomfortable, God loves you best.

Parental Unit · 11-09-2012, 05:13 PM

Don't ever second guess your gut feeling, those are your instincts. When you spoke of him, you said "he got weird", "even more obbsessed", "really fed up", "blocked him"...so why do you question yourself now? I agree with the other comments. Think! When you decided it was over, let it end. Don't worry about a measely little party at his house. Sounds like manipulation for sure. Of course you felt left out, because you were! Yes, it was right to quit talking to him. Hopefully you let him down gently. Some people need to actually hear it from the horses mouth that it's over. You can be nice at first, but then be firm. It sounds like you already did that. Be well.