Why does it not matter that your boyfriend oggles other girls?

[lemonsaresweet]

I always worshiped the ground my boyfriend walks on until I looked at his history to see what holiday's he'd been looking at for us and found that he spends his time looking through girl's pictures on facebook all the time! I get porn, because they fulfill fantasies and are idolised women, but these are girls he knows and I can't get over it. I wish someone would tell me why it shouldn't bother me and that it's harmless
I just feel so inadequate

[alora]

why are you looking at his history.. girl you have alot to learn.. snooping is the worst thing you could do in a new relationship.. It causes you to over think things and get jealous and it will cause him not to trust you.. your heading for a breakup

[Misty]

he is only looking not touching. although i can understand why you are upset when these girls are known to him. when its people on the street or on the telly it wouldn't really bother me personally but thats different.