How should I confront my friend?
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11-09-2012, 05:24 PM
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How should I confront my friend?
My two friends, who I talk to almost everyday, deleted my as their sister on facebook last week. It is something kids in my grade do, to show close friends (which I know is stupid), but it still really hurt my feelings when they took me off. I really want to talk to them so I can find out if they have a problem with me but don't know how to say it in a respectful way. Everything has been fine with them that I know of. Thanks everyone!
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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Maybe the whole sister thing is just out of fashion now. Delete them as your sisters and then if they ask say that you thought no one was doing that anymore.
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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You should go right up to your friend and ask them straight out. If they have a problem with you, it is best to sort it out as soon as possible. Hope I helped!!!
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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I deleted all of my "sisters" too. Its getting lame and annoying, LOL. I doubt that it actually means anything.
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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Have you had any issues with your friends recently? It's best to just ask them if everything is OK between you and then they could reassure you or tell you the problem. I agree it's best to just be upfront and discuss things rather than bitch or argue, it's probably nothing. Either that or there's something wrong with Facebook.
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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You can never know what a person is thinking even if you ask them directly. That is the best way to ask though. I would simply ask them nonchalantly during your next conversation. (Example) "Sarah, that's a nice shirt you have on, where did you get it? Sarah answers, then simply say that I noticed that you changed our facebook relationship, and wondered if there was something I did to offend you.
Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Good luck. |
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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ok well i have had this problem to. first off go to them be nice, ask how life is. normal convo. after a normal nice talk ask them why they did that. (in a nice way) so say they said it was cuz they were mad at you. ask why? myabe you will find out something bad happened to them maybe about family or something. just awlays stay nice and make sure you talk to them if you dont thigs will just get worse!! Don't be afriad if they are your sister (bffl) they will tell you and you guys will makeup and be friends again!!
i hope i helped (: you can email me if you have anymore questions. i love helping people lol good luck!! |
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11-09-2012, 05:33 PM
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Jus go up to them &&Ask straight out.It wouldn't hurt anythangg,Tell them it hurt your feelings. Worst thang they can do is say none of your buisness and walk away.&&It's not stupid to put them as your brother/sister. I do it too! lol
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