How could I relax and talk to this girl?

[holy_warrior]

For some reason I could not ever relax talking to this girl. Every time we talked, there always a pause in between in our conversation and I get really nervous to talk about anything. I really like this girl and someday I want her to be my girlfriend but I don't what is the perfect time to tell her and ask her on a date and stuff. I want to talk to her in facebook and I did say hi a hour ago but she haven't respond. I'm getting obsessed of her as well. Ugh, I need help people, please?

[Mike]

Relax take your time and practice a few lines in front of mirror. Remember always look into your eyes while practicing in front of mirror. Talk to other girls also whom you are not intrested in. This will ease a bit tension. All the best after all she is another human being so dont get nervous. (Easier said than done.. )

[lady u kno0o who0o]

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dont reherse...ur convo to a gal........
dont get obsessed..she mite break ur heart......
dont be to needy
have confidence (yes us gals like that)
be urself
how?
just be friends. dont let anything escalate

[Greg]

Haha, you know, bring up a subject, anything, ask questions about her, get to know her with conversation, not the typical "what's your fav color?" no, ask questions like, "So what were you like when you were a kid?" you know, something to conversate, don't let the conversation die, keep it going

[ValantBR]

Try to talk to her as you would to any normal friend , but maybe sweeter. Try to imagine her as like one of your best friends. It may be difficult , but not impossible. If you just let yourself loose you will have nothing to lose. Just don't talk about topics she's probably not interested in. Then when she starts yawning you will get more nervous. Lol. Never start a convo with a girl you dont know yet on fb or anywhere else with a "hi" do you know how boring that is? She probably gets thay from everyone. xD. If you know about something she likes, or maybe ask her a question about an interest of hers she might respond. Don't get obsessed. Usually us girls, can sense that , and we don't like that. So when you start thinking of her nonstop, do something else. Like play a videogame, call a friend. Etc. Good luck! [:

[2jumpsinaweek]

First I know this is what you expected EVERYONE to say, but take a deep breath and relax. I know you said you couldn't relax but try this. Talk to one of your friends before hand (a girl... if you have a girl thats just your casual friend) then find the girl you like. Talk to her in the same casual way you just talked to your other friend, look at her in the eye, smile, and laugh at her jokes. another tip is become friends with her friends. it will make you seem more casual and chill. eventually as you guys get to know each other start to say things like.
"we should hang out sometime"
or "we should catch a movie sometime"

if she says yes, and she probably will, get ready before you guys hang out. wear normal cloths, and make sure you smell alright, and then go meet her. when you guys are together still act normal, and then eventually do something like holding her hand or putting an arm around her shoulder... she might notice you like her then.
keep on going to places with her (invite other people too sometimes)
until you feel confident enough to tell her you like her, or that you want to go out with her.

Hope i helped!!!!

P.S and even if she doesn't want a romantic relationship with you, you guys still might be great friends!

[Jack H]

Tell yourself that you are talking to a girl, whats a girl? The exact opposite of a guy except beautiful and emotional. Relaxing will probably make you screw up and may imply that you do not like her.

Tell yourself you are talking to HER, you want to know her, help her, and want to be with her. I'm not saying plan conversations but plan topics. Simply start with topics about her and you. Work from their down to more specific. You can plan any conversation this way and make new one coming off of more specific ones or topics.

Just be confident and don't ever be persistent with one topic because its exhausting. Make her happy!