My Wifes is talking to Ex boyfriend on the phone?

[rrgitars]

I found out that my wife has been chatting via Email- through facebook with her ex boyfriend from 15 years ago. Then i got into her email and saw that she has spoken to him on te phone the last 2 nights.
What should I do???? I do trust her but she lied to me when asked her if she intended on ever speaking to him as she said there would only be emailing.

[FearlessArtist789]

i would be pissed as hell. i think the fact that she is lying about talking to him is bad enough.

[Aunt Mimi]

I'm so sorry to hear that your wife has been concealing this from you. Please talk to your wife and keep an open mind. Is she lonely? Are you working a lot or not giving her enough attention or affection? Have you cheated on your wife? If the answer is yes, it's time to fall in love with your wife again and/or seek counseling.

[Arise!!!]

Ask her to stop doing that. It makes feel you uncomfotable and it could jeopardise your relationship. Make your intention loud and clear.

Commonsense.

[AshBurg]

Try talk to her nicely that you will not be angry. She lie cos she is afraid you would get angry.Be a gentleman

[itsalltrue12]

well you don't trust her, you were going through her things... but i will say this ive heard this scenario several times the wife/husband talking to an ex as just a friend... and i have never seen it end up well. so i say confront her.... don't sleep on this one.

[Cham]

There is no reason for her to be speaking to an ex on a regular basis unless they have children together.

There is no reason for you to ILLEGALLY go into her email accounts investigating her and trying to dig up dirt.

You need to decide what you're going to do in regards to the information you did find by giving her closed ended options.

[FuegoAzul]

You shouldn't have to search through her emails but it's good that you did. All she did was prove that your lack of trust for her is valid. I'd nip this in the bud right now. No married woman should be sneaking around talking to another man, especially an ex-boyfriend. If she was trustworthy, you wouldn't be asking this question right now.

[Debbie M]

If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you'll want to read this