Should I be Jealous over my boyfriend receiving private messages on facebook from other women?

[southernbell]

My boyfriend of almost 3 yrs. is facebook friends with several of his ex's and several good looking single women. I do know a few of these women are looking for a new man and they have mentioned in the past how handsome he is. I know he receives private messages from them (not sure if he sends anything back) but I don't know the content of the messages. I do know most are harmless but still wonder about others. Should I be jealous?

[Eric Bradbury]

Only if they're sexual or the messages are encouraging him to cheat on you with them.

[Ratto]

Put the shoe on the other foot.
Does he get jealous when your male friends get hold of you?
I would not worry about it, iof he has feelings for you, all should be well. Besides, you're too young to get down with just one person

[M]

absolutely not.

you should be more jealous of him sleeping with them.

[Koto51]

No, he's probably just communicating with some good friends. Don't be so nervous about the whole thing.

[Michaels]

Yes.

[RM]

Depends. Both myself and my spouse have friends of the opposite sex on our accounts that the other has never met. These are friends of the past and even ex's! But we trust each other and know that the connections are simply platonic in nature. Sure some of these women may be looking for men, but that doesn't mean they can't have friends too. I know several of my friends who are single and looking, but not for me! If you are upset about it then ask. Don't demand, badger or harass. Just ask. You'll know if he's hiding something!