How do I talk to my boyfriend about liking another girl when I found out about it by sneaking around?

[Brittany]

I stupidly read my boyfriend's facebook inbox and found some comprimising messages between him and this other girl, she told him she liked him and he reciprocated those feelings but told her breaking up with me for another girl was not the best option. I don't know if he was just trying to be nice to her or if he really would leave me...what do I do? I can't confront him because I shouldn't have been reading his private messages..

[Alina Y]

just go with the floww . let everything come to u then maybe ulll find a perfect time to confront him :]

[megs945]

Just let what happens happen. If he breaks up with you for this other girl, then you two weren't meant to be in the first place. If he was just being nice to her, well good for you. Don't tell him you read his Facebook messages. That'll just start a fight.

[T.Marie]

well. it looks like hes handling the situation..hes saying its not an option.. so id say dont say anything that could cause more problems..i suggest you call him on his odd behavior (if any) and get him to talk ..ask him whats going on, is there anything you want to tell me? if he spends more time out and more time on facebook as him about that too. make sure you have factual evidence that theres anything going on before asking him about it. You dont want him to think you dont trust him..if hes been telling her things and leading her on that hes interested in her then i say you call him on the fact that you feel like his attention is being put into other places other than your guys relationship. ask him where its going.