how to make this work if his mom dont let us talk?

[Kaycee M]

Okay.. so my boyfriend's mom won't let us talk AT ALL. she won't let us ever talk again. she took all contact away. he can't use the phone, or the computer. He has to go straight home, to practice to school. She blocked me offf her facebook and my boyfriend's sisters facebook and wants me out of the families life. my boyfriend and i are really iin love and want to make it work. how can we make this work by not being able to talk?

[Epic Trollington]

Sounds like you're 12
Wanna hook up?

[colossaldime350]

..........Did you steal something? Get to second base with him in front of his mom? What?
She seems awful pissed. How old are you? 14, 16? i don't know if you're "in love" like you think you are. Sounds like teen problems to me. But I think his jerk of a mother has got you beat. Don't see anyway around her blocks. Anyway to talk in school? Maybe get him to convince her otherwise?
That might work. :o

[*SaRaH*]

If you are older than 15 go to his house when you no the mom is home and tell her how you feel but DO NOT say you are in love cause she will get mad

[Variable 46]

Judging from your other questions, I'm guessing his mom has taken this drastic step because you thought you were pregnant. So...how old are you two? Parents deal with these situations quite often in the wrong way. The classic "keep them apart and they'll get over each other" that is being employed here often backfires. My own mother tried that, and it resulted in a permanent estrangement between her and I that endured for the rest of her life. I was never able to forgive her. But in some cases it may be better than having you get pregnant if you're like 15 or so.

Surely you can contact each other somehow, surreptitiously. If I were your boyfriend, that is what I would do, and I would tell you okay, let's give this a month by their rules and see if anything changes between us. Believe it or not, maybe it will. But if not, if after that waiting period nothing had changed, I would enter into a period of at-home protest until some negotiation for different terms came about.

What those terms are would depend on your ages. At 14 or 15 I would say as a parent it would probably involve some closely chaperoned contacts. At 17 it would probably take the form of educating you both against the dangers of what you're doing, realizing you're going to do it anyway.

And your final recourse is to wait. Wait until you're 18. It may seem like a terribly long time, but it will get here. In the meantime, explore other aspects of your life and in a lot of cases you may discover that you're no longer waiting after all.

But I also know in some cases what you're waiting for is worth waiting for. We venerate couples who have been married 50, 60, even 70 years. By definition, these couples first got together on their road to eternity together while they were still basically teen-age children. Some of us find who we're looking for at a very young age.

Good luck figuring it out.