how do you control yourself when your mother has really been getting on your nerves lately?

[Keyonna C.]

she always thinks she's right ! Even when we all know she's wrong. She's always in someone else's conversation, and gets mad when she doesn't understand what you and whoever else you are talking to are talking about ! She's always trying to be "cool" she comments on my Facebook status' saying dumb stuff like ayyyyeeee, roger that ! ( lame) . i didn't have a problem with having a "cool" mom until it started effecting my privacy ! And for some reason, she's always in my face and finds the dumbest reasons to get mad !

[GINGER]

Sounds like she's trying to control you. It also sounds like you aren't letting her anymore and this is making her mad. Could she be bitter about her life and be totally unhappy? It sounds like she wants to bring everyone down. Try staying away from her for a while and just be cordial when you do run into her. Don't let her bring you down. This is wrong! Good Luck Dear!

[swissSis]

if you ever need to let off steam find an activity that helps you relax. I ALWAYS feel better after a nice run (or jog).
Everyone has their own personality, whether it bothers you or not, next time she gets on your nerves or buds into your privacy take some calming breaths and try to sensibly talk to her about it. But do not make it sound like its all her fault e.i. "Mom, you are SO annoying!! Why do you keep saying things like that? its not cool!" instead say something like " Mom, when i find comments on my Facebook worded like that it frustrates me and embarrasses me. I would really appreciate it if you would stop doing that." but instead of totally kicking her out of your social life try compromising with her. hope this helped!!

[LanneR_04]

Not all you hear is true,
If you think that your mother had said was true, you give room to create a paradigm that he's always right,
the right thing is when you have the basis of the principle of your life that do not violate the rules, and you love to do.
Remember sometimes we have to beat for the happiness of others, but we must not lose our happiness, you try to think win-win solution, not the mother you are happy, but both are happy for you, there is no point to fight each other, you're amongst it still need each other, so keep an eye on your relationship.