What do i do when an ex is trying to talk to my friends and family?

[krystal]

on facebook my ex has been chating my best friend and everytime he does my best friend says she signs off or says she has to go. now just yesterday he sent my other best friend a message on facebook and said he hasn't seen her for awhile and them two need to catch up. but when i was dating him he never really talked to any of my friends and neither did i. and he chats my sisters and asks them how they are doing and how there kids are doing. what does it mean and what should i do? i don't wanna acutally talk to him but i want him to stop.

[Kris]

well sorry the best thing to do would be to talk to him.

[EddyGladders1]

You can ask your family and friends to ignore him, but if he's not doing any harm and just talking there's nothing really you can do about it, but if hes after a date with them then you should tell them to ignore him

[JUAN FRAN$$$]

Actually not a whole lot of nothing. That is up to them whether they talk or chat with him or not.
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If they do not want to talk to him then, they will have to tell him.

[Carrie]

If you don't want him no more why is it up setting you so much that he is talking to your friends and sister? Truthfully, if their your friends/sister than they wont want him around them anyhow. you said the one friend logs off. Tell her from now on she shouldn't logg off that's letting him control her facebook time. Have you asked your sis why she's talking to them. Maybe their just humoring him because they don't want to be completely rude so their saying hi but other than that they are leaving him alone.

But if you really feel threatened then maybe you could tell your friends/sister to kick him off their page but that really isn't very fair. It's almost like you get to choose who can and can't be friends. You two broke up he didn't dump all of them. If you don't like him then kick him off your page and stay away but don't go all crazy and make your friends choose.

I could be wrong maybe in your circle of friends you were elected Queen Bee and only you get to choose who gets to be friends. Doesn't that sound silly... Think about it Sweetie Who cares who he talks too.. You should be happy that he's not harrassing you anymore. Right Or are you still wanting him??? If that's the case thenyou need to let the homegirls know you still want that and for them to step off. If they don't then you'll see who your friends are. And if you still like him you betta step up and take it before he does find someone new. I promise you it will not kill you to apologize to him and ask him back out...

[Karina]

Well maybe some how he wants to feel like he is close to you & maybe once he starts talking to any of these people he may ask about you. Or he might just feel too attached to let go of you. But what you should do is just ignore it & keep going with your life, pay no mind to this. He might also be trying to make your friends/relatives feel bad for him & help him go back out with you. Just don't pay any mind to him and keep on with your life. Go out relax & you never know what good surprises life has prepared for you ;D good luck!