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Would you be mad if your boyfriend was ALWAYS adding chicks to his Facebook?
11-09-2012, 06:17 PM
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Would you be mad if your boyfriend was ALWAYS adding chicks to his Facebook?
I've been dating this guy for a while now, but I'm concerned because he is one of those people that has "litterally" 1500 friends on facebook (most of them hot girls), and is always adding a "slut of the week". He always gets facebook messages on his blackberry and hides to read his messages. He also often puts his phone on silent. Should I be concerned?

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11-09-2012, 06:26 PM
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Although he's probably not doing anything or talking much with all those girls,i'd be pissed. Something like this happened to me. I mean,I'm a jealous person. I'm not going to hide that and it bothers me when stuff like this happens. Just gently ask your boyfriend what's up with all the girls on facebook. Tell him that you feel like you're no longer the only one in his life,like it should be. Let him know that you're a little worried or hurt. Maybe he'll talk it over with you and make you understand.

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11-09-2012, 06:26 PM
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talk to him, tell him that it bothers you and hopefully he'll set you straight and tell you that there's nothing to worry about - that you should trust him.
if he doesn't take it seriously, get stern and make sure that he knows that you mean business!
it would bug me, but if you talk to him then you may get the all-clear and the assurance that there is nothing to it - just harmless internet networking. if you let him know that it bothers you, it's up to him and his respect for you to decide what to do. if he's worth your time, he'll realise how it's affecting you, and he'll change his ways. if not, you'll either have to accept it and try and trust him, or move on.
good luck!
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11-09-2012, 06:26 PM
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he sounds a sleazeball but if u like that kind of guy then I guess it's ok.

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11-09-2012, 06:26 PM
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either hes

A/ adding girls to face book because he is really just friends with them or hes adding them as a means to stroke his ego and make him self feel good about himself.

B/ hes trying to be connected to many easy type women in a way to try work them on different occasions.

He may well just be private with his mobile or he has something to hide, a flitatious message for example

He may not have acted on these advances but then again if you dont trust him now it will just get worse. Face book is just a virtual world, its not reality.

Are the women he is adding stranger or friends and has he introduced you to any of them? Has he had nites away or refuses to explain himself to you on any time hes been away?

Why not make a fake face book , flirt and try add him to test him?
I know thats a bit much but it will test his loyalty to you
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11-09-2012, 06:26 PM
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Maybe you should find out the password for his account >_>
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11-09-2012, 06:26 PM
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I wouldnt like it thats for sure.
you could ask him if he knows any of these girls properly and if he doesnt then tell him it bothers you and how would he feel if you did it. If he shrugs you off and doesnt really give a toss I suggest you dump his ass. Sorry to sound harsh but if this is what he does and refuses to stop it then you're in for a llife of always wondering what he's up to.
You're worth better than that
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