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in need of opinions. PLEASE HELP :(?
10-02-2012, 11:24 AM
Post: #1
in need of opinions. PLEASE HELP :(?
hi guys, this is gonna be a pretty long one so i really hope you'll bare with me. i really really need your opinion.

i was trying to piggy back one of my friends and he offered to piggy back me.. i didn't think much about it then till later that night. and also when we took a picture together, he puts his arm around me. i was like oo, ok.. but like i said it didn't really strike me at that time. but it was kinda odd thinking about it because he doesn't do that with my other girl friends? and we're all pretty close. and he's not the type who would always 'touch' girls or even 'flirtyly' touch them and all that stuff.

he uploaded all the pictures that night and he changed his profile picture to the picture i took with him earlier and he changed his dp for all his accounts, insta and twitter. everyone said we made a cute/sweet couple. literally every single one of our friends said that.
he then posted all the pictures of me and him from that day within the next few days on insta, and the captions were like, you and i would make a sweet couple, look who's on my homescreen <3, and i'm just a lil bit love ridden(which is a song lyric). he even did this on twitter where he hashtagged someone i have a crush on and he said a close friend. he sent me goodnight texts, and morning texts, we talked and stuff over the next couple of days and quite honestly by then i was already falling for him. i mean, i've known him for 4 years, so i don't think its weird to be falling for him that fast? or is it? tbh, i've thought about it before.

anways, here's the catch. he just broke up with his gf about 2-3 weeks ago? and i knew that I didn't want to be a rebound but quite oddly, he didn't really socialised with his ex? they didn't talk face to face or hung out , it was all "virtual" they were school mates though. but that was something i was wary of.. not wanting to be a rebound.
and also, recently he posted something that kinda hurt my feelings.. he said that he had no time for a relationship, more time for studying and eversince then all the goodnight messages and whatever stopped. Sad

i'm pretty much hurt, actually i am. because why would you lead me on like that? i do understand that hes gotta prioritise his studying (the fact he's taking his Os), and he's busy and stuff. but it just ended like that.. in a blink of an eye, it was as though it didnt happen. i'm just so confused right now.

Could someone just let me know what you think? does he like me or whatever. anything would do !

thank you!

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10-02-2012, 11:32 AM
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he likes you, ask him out

answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...301AAZ1h3C

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10-02-2012, 11:32 AM
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Hi Elly Michaela, so you've picked up an odd guy, I'm not really sure what "stuff" means. But it does seem as though he was making a play for you. The only thing I don't know is that did you actually tell him that you had feelings for him. For he might have been waiting for a reaction from you. Anyway, he broke with his girlfriend, and he seems to have lost interest in you, so perhaps all this is happening because he does want to concentrate on his Os. I cannot really say. But he really should have discussed this with you, after all you were a close friend, as he put it. But he should have put you in the picture as to what he was doing, If only as a courtesy. I can only say that he must have had feelings for you, but then he was your friend, and friends do have feelings. Whether or not it was any more than that it's hard to say, but you were getting closer, but perhaps you didn't give him the right signs. Anyway I guess you'll be thinking about other guys, for this one didn't give you much respect at the end. Trying to find a guy that's not doing his Os. And make sure he knows your feelings for him.
I wish you happiness.
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