My girlfriend just broke up with me. What can I do to get rid of the pain?

[Matt]

I need something to just distract me or something. One minute I thought everything was okay, the next minute she is breaking up with me on facebook chat

[Robby]

i know how you feel man, just happened to me too. just go hang out at parties or with friends to get your mind off her. or you could go for long walks or find a hobby. depending on how much you like her though there are ways you may be able to get her back, like ignoring her and just having the time of your life somewhere else. there's a chance she may start thinking about you and missing you. wish i could sy the same for me... but good luck anyway

[Emperor]

think about all the clues that were there.
if you really think back on it, you knew that this day was coming.
also keep in mind that you will meet other girls. remember the type of relationship you had with this current girl and avoid getting into another relationship that was like this one.

youll be fine

[j s]

Dude,

I know this is not as comforting as you may like.. You may have heard this before. But this is LIFE.

It's life now, the future, it's just life. Sometimes life is really good, other times, we have such terrible adversity and pain (eg) death of a parent, close friend... Your case, loss of a relationship..

Does it suck? Does it hurt like hell? Oh yea.. There are NO easy fixes and answers to these times that take place in our lifetime. This is what gives the older people in your life a license to give advice (which you probably never listen to) and will give YOU a license to pass on thoughts about tough times to others.

I'm sorry for the way you feel, I have felt this way MANY times in the years I have been alive and it really blows chunks. No other way to say it.

You've got to move on. This is where throwing all of your friends away for anyone... To spend all that quality time in your relationships is not such a good plan. You need true friends in times like this to lean on.. Chum up with some Buds and do what is it you did before it all went down. But either way, LEARN from this heart ache and grow... It's what we've ALL had to do.

Sorry it happened to ya man. But it's all of being HUMAN.