my ex/daughters father keeps posting out of control, personal things about me on facebook?

[melissa]

i don't let him see the kids all the time because he is usually on drugs or hanging around people i don want my children to be around. when i tell him he cant see them he starts posting all kinds of crazy thinks about me on facebook. i want to report him o facebook but i don't want him to know it was me. will he know it was me who reported him and will they kick him off?

[Joe M.]

Hello! I appreciate the situation you're in--and it's kind of a "damned if you do/damned if you don't" predicament. If Facebook does act on your report, your ex "may" figure out it was you. If you don't report him--he continues to post derogatory remarks about you.

You have to weigh which you can put up with more--the fear that he might figure out it was you who reported him; or his continuing to slander you on Facebook. One thing's for certain--if Facebook does act on your complain and suspend/ban his account, they won't tell him that it was you who reported him.

Hope this helps, and good luck to you.