I donate, buy things for fundraisers from all my friends. I never ask them for donations or to buy things. Now?

[kimberly k]

I am going through Breast Cancer and have sent out an email and on face book to sponser me in the Race for the cure. Just a handful responded. I feel bad for being upset, but this is important to me since I'm going through it. Am I being silly?

[Susan]

I don't know if you are being silly, but I'm certain you are being human.

Your closest friends would most likely wish for a second chance if you'd express this sentiment. I suggest you resend the letter to those closest to you, adding what you said here. Because, they may not have responded to a request for money (we all get bombarded with so many of these, and we are not all as generous as you are habitually,) but perhaps they will respond to your request to be emotionally supported (by being financially sponsored in the race.)

I hope you beat it!!

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Fight Like A Girl! My FaceBook page is the pink awareness ribbon. So sorry you're going through this now. It's sometimes better to have a handful of close than a roomful of those who aren't, although I know that's not always comforting to hear.

And, No,You aren't being silly at all! What I'd recommend is periodically posting the race information on the home wall, asking for prayers and support for the race; plus, I'd give out breast exam facts and information/links on how to do a monthly breast exam. Keep it upbeat and positive. Some people are so frightened by cancer that they have difficulty even acknowledging it exists. A gentle coaxing might help.

I am constantly trying to raise donations and awareness for my causes. I find that this time of year is difficult for many financially. They've already spent their tax refunds, it's graduation and wedding season, if the family is going to keep up with the Jones a vacation is to be planned, some visit elderly relatives during the summer that may need additional help, some have next year's college tuition coming up, etc. It's true that the lack of response may not be meant personally towards you. Some are crippled by their own deep embarrassment over having financial struggles. Remember the average American reports being 2 paychecks away from homelessness. When it comes to matters of health, many people don't realize how far even a token amount would go to help another feel supported.

I am so proud of you for participating in the Race for the Cure. Putting a face on breast cancer helps people become more aware. What you are doing is admirable and you are touching more people than you even realize. Thank you for reaching out to help make this difference!

Ps. I know you weren't asking for health advice, but as a cancer survivor myself and having my Great Aunt Mal having breast cancer, please take a look at this information if you haven't already. Of course, talk with doctor about anything new you might want to add.
http://www.ehow.com/way_5602877_alkaline...ancer.html

Best to You! <3 <3 <3