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This girl might like me?
10-02-2012, 11:45 AM
Post: #1
This girl might like me?
There is a girl in my year at school - S4 (or 10th grade) we are both 15 - , and i really like her. She talks to me most days, and acts pretty friendly overall.

She has had a few boyfriends before, i have had one girlfriend before - that relationship lasted a LONG time though, i.e. A few years or so..

I have not got a CLUE whether or not she is into me, or if she only sees me as a friend.

A couple of weeks ago she started doing things like when we are reading in our English class, she will fiddle with her hair, or tap her fingers on the table. I sit next to her in English, and during this class, I will sit closer to her than other people normally would and she doesn't seem to - i don't think she does any way -react badly. She seems comfortable around me. I have also found out that she wants to be in a relationship - as do i obviously.

Over the last 2 or so weeks, i have been flirting a wee bit with her: i said she has really nice eyes - i said this in person. She posted on twitter something about her being unattractive, i replied with "Since when were you unattractive? Wink" She just denied that she was - as most girls my age seem to do - I found out that she was ill - she has a cold, headache and she feels as if she has been punched in the stomach. I have said to her that i hope she get better soon and best wishes, also said that this gives her an excuse to sit around being lazy though! She responded well to this, thanked me with a smiley face. The following morning i direct messaged her on twitter asking how she was feeling, and if she wanted to rant, i told her i was all ears. She replied to this by saying "nah, not really. Thanks though Smile" I relied to this saying that if being ill was getting her down, or whatever, then she knew where to find me. She replied with "haha, thanks Smile".
Anyway.. Any help/advice/e.t.c on whether or not she likes me would be deeply appreciated! Also how to get her to like me if she does not, and how/where to take it from here..

Thanks!

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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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I don't think she is. Yet. She might either be playing hard to get or she is still checking you out.

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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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Yes sure.
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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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Definitely go for it. Talk with her more. Hang out with her. And if she continues to give impressions that scream "I really like you.", go out with her.
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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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All I can say is take her to the cinema and whilst you are watching slightly lean towards her almost resting your head on her shoulder and see where it takes you from there.
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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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Don't do anything yet because from what I am reading I can not really tell if she is into you. You should wait it out like three more months so you do not ruin what you two have, if things have not changed you should then just tell her what you think about her. Good luck
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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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What does your gut tell you.... Do you think she likes you? Do you think she has ever flirted with you before? If you first think yes, well then she most likely likes you.
I am a girl, and there has been times where I have been in her position and I can tell the guy likes me, and I like him back but I try to act "cool" and kinda try to distant myself. It's hard to explain, but like Ive done things like her where she said "nah, not really" before even when I have like the guy. I don't know why I have, I guess maybe I just like being chased. But from this, you cant assume that she likes you back.. but I have a feeling she would have some feelings, otherwise she wouldn't want you in her life at all. A good hint that maybe she wanted you to ask her out was when she said that she wants relationship.... If you are brave, I would tell her that you like her by suggesting to go out to a movie or something. Be brave, If she likes you then she would be waiting for you to make the first move because that is usually the boys position.
good luck, hope that helps Smile
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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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Probably not. If she liked you, she would use love hearts and kisses in her tweets. Try and be friends with her and see where it goes
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10-02-2012, 11:53 AM
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Well you sound pretty close which can either be a good or a bad thing, good as in that she would love to be with you because she knows it wont be awkward because you get on so well, or it could be bad because she might think that if you break up, then her relationship with you before you got together will never be the same again. a simple way to solve that is promise her that if you do break up, then it will go back to the way it used to be and just be friends.
The only way you can truly find out if she likes you is if you ask her, or ask her out, then you will know by her answer of course, but another way is if she has told one of her friends that she likes you, see if you can get them to tell you, or if she hasnt said anything to her friends, ask one of her friends to ask her if she likes you but tell her not to say it was from you so then if she gives you an answer, you know what to do. you could always leave it for a couple more weeks, and see how she acts around you, but dont leave it too late because if you come so close that your like almost bestfriends, there is a big chance that when you do ask her out, shes gunna say no because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship.
If you ask her out and she says no because she just wants to be close friends with you then do that, and try and make her fall in love with you, by always being there for her when shes alone and upset, make her smile and forget about everything for a while. just be a gentleman, be sweet and kind and listen when she needs someone to talk to.
If you ask her out and she says yes, coming from me, as i am a girl, girls like a boyfriend that acts like a bestfriend towards them, and isnt afraid to tell there friends that shes your girl, someone who would be there on her good days and bad days, and will always help her out, and tell her that everything will work out in the end. shes bound to stay if you act like that. dont be one of those guys who show off alot just because you have her and tries to act hard infront of there friends when shes with you, thats just being a dick, and she'll leave pretty quick.

Hope i helped!
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