is it considered harassment to contact someone on facebook to say youre having an affair w their husband?

[shanna g]

I recently found out my boyfriend is married and i really believe that his wife deserves to know what he's done. I dont know how to contact her other than on facebook. Would it be considered harassment to leave her a message to inform her? Help!

[keflo]

I dont really think its any of your business. just steer clear of the married man and in time she'll find out on her own.

[justagrandma]

Do yourself and your dignity a favor and don't say anything. Shes not going to kick him out because someone contacts her on facebook.

It would be harassment if you did it more than once, or tried to contact her by phone or mail.
Marriages are odd things from the outside, she may already know and not care.

[Fr3d00m]

tell her on facebook. whatya waiting for? an invitation uh>?

[Milton]

It is not your business to contact her. You are a woman scorned and hurt. Accept the pain and move on with your life. She has enough problems with him without you making it worse for her so you can have your five minutes of vengeance for his being a rat.

The best revenge is to move on with your life and do far better than him next time.

Good luck and next time, check the person's bona fides by asking to visit his home before you have sex with him! The home always gives them away. Either they say no or if they say yes because the wife is not there, you can tell a woman's presence in a home very easily unless she doesn't wear clothes or use makeup.

[LF. Overthrow]

it's not harrasment, let her know that you just found out he was married though!

I would like someone to let me know if i was being cheated on.

[his royal dudeness]

i would and send her pics of the two of you as proof

[george]

it can be concidered many things if you do such thing
This things can make people commit suicide or to kill someone
Is not the right way to do it.
Also this is in public view and many others will see it
Have you ever concidered the other members of his family?
Do you think that they DESERVE such humiliation because they cheated and lied on you.
He did that and not the other members of his family
If they want they can use the commenst and sue you properly in a court of law
And then it will be hard for you to explain to the judge

[Dr Freddy]

You are hurting and that is understandable WOW and one would be, but this lady has done you no harm so just move on and lick your wounds and just get back in the race

" JUMP IN " the water is lovely

Best of luck with it