should I continue living with my wife who does not treat me as her husband anymore?

[james61]

my wife got offended as she believed i was flirting with my old girlfriend in facebook and wants to leave our kids with me last Nov 2011 then we got back together for the kids but she does things by herself and never ask me permission any longer.

[Zilch]

Did you apologize? Was she right? Don't lie.

[dudleydo]

You got caught - and I will give you a clue - stop telling her what to do. No one likes to have to "ask permission" to do anything. Especially if someone is cheating on her in any way. Go back on Facebook and put your real picture in the site see that you come up with. Good luck to your wife.

[silvia]

In this situation it's best to think about this in terms of yourself and the kids. If she is an essential part of your kids life, and she loves them then I would try to give her another chance to work this out because it was obvious that the whole facebook thing was a misunderstanding. Make it clear to her what you want out of this marraige and ask her what she wants as well. I'm not sure what you mean about 'asking for permission' but if you mean that she is unresponsive then try to talk things out with her.

[Paige]

try to work things out, maybe its not just her that is being distant, maybe its you also, maybe you should randomly give her flowers or tell her you love her once in a while keep the romance alive

[raulbesquival]

I think you should discuss this matter with her and try to make her understand and should clear all the thinks. If she understand then its ok other wise finalize every thing with her and take final decision.

[islandgirl06]

Pardon me but can you blame her for being offended when you communicate with your ex girlfriend? Your wife knows about your ex and for that what else would you like her to act. You and your ex has history together and that's what humiliate and offend her. Maybe the two of you are good friends now but you need to tell your wife what you were doing. If it was me (your wife) offended is far from it. I will make sure that you will answer the question I will be asking, like why did you connect with your ex and never told me about it." Husband and wife supposed to become one and will never hide anything from each others. I think you owe her an apology, yes?