Should I give up on this girl or keep trying?

[bakabakabaka]

So I've known this girl a few months, and we've hung out a bunch of times, but only been on one official date. She lives 45 minutes away. She told me she wasn't interested in anyone else since she first met me and is really into me. She usually texts me all day, like literally thousands, and calls me whenever she gets the chance, sometimes for hours. Recently I noticed she wasn't talking to me that much, so I asked her if I did something wrong or what was up. She said we weren't clicking as much as she thought we would at first, and that she wasn't sure how long we would last. I think it might have been because when we first met, I was really positive and fun, but once I got to know her and talk to her more seriously, I told her about all of my family issues and how depressed it made me sometimes, so maybe she thought it wasn't fun to be around me anymore. It really mad me mad, because at first I wasn't that into her, but she kept trying really hard to get me to talk to her and hang out, and eventually I gave in and ended up really liking her, plus everything I told her about my family. So I told her I was done. Then she said it doesn't mean it has to be over, and that we owe it to ourselves to keep trying. I told her that I didn't want to waste my time since she lives kind of far away and since she said she didn't think we would last long anyways. She tried a little bit to get me to change my mind, but I didn't. A few days later after thinking about it, I calmed down and wasn't happy with the way things turned out, so I told her I overreacted and that I would be willing to try and work things out if she still wanted to. She never answered me so I figured it was over. I removed her as a friend from facebook, then unfollowed her on twitter and instagram so I wouldn't get depressed thinking about it every time I saw her post something. I was trying to move on, but then about a week later, I was at a concert of a band we both listened to and knew the members of, and I posted a picture of it to instagram. I noticed she liked it, which I thought was weird, but put my phone away until after wards to enjoy the show. After wards, I go to check and think about it, but it didn't show that she liked it. I thought I might have misread and that it was someone else, but it still had the notification on my iphone, although not instagram. I wasn't sure if she liked it then unliked it because she realized it was me and didn't mean to, or what. Either way, it made me realize she still followed me on twitter, instagram, and facebook, and I post a lot, so it's not like she didn't notice, although she might not have realized I unfollowed her. I just don't understand why she would still keep track of me if she didn't have any feelings for me, because when I thought she didn't me, I immediately removed her from everything. So I messaged her again saying that even if any part of her even wanted to be just friends, I would be willing. She messaged me saying I don't know what you expect. I said I don't expect anything, just wanted her to know I'm not happy with the way things ended and that it doesn't have to be that way if she doesn't want. She didn't answer. She still followed me on instagram, twitter, and facebook a few more days, and I always felt like her posts were about me. Then I noticed she finally unfollowed me on facebook and twitter, but she's still following me on instagram. I don't know why she still follows me on instagram and not the others if she doesn't care, unless she forgot to remove me. I feel like there might be a reason, and that this might be my last chance, but I don't know what to do. I keep thinking about re-adding her on facebook and twitter, or at least instagram since she still follows me, but I don't know if that would work. I would rather her just say she's done than this not knowing, so I could just accept it and move on, and I told her that but she never answered. This all probably sounds really dumb, but it's just hard to believe the things she said to me in the short time we were together were all a lie, and I don't go out with a lot of girls, so I take it seriously when I do. Should I just give up? I basically did, until that notification popped up and boggled my mind. Or should I keep trying, and if so, what should I do? I don't want to creep her out or annoy her if she's done, but she hasn't told me that, so I don't want to give up if there's still something I can do. This blows my mind considering how hard she tried to get me to go out with her and how I kept blowing her off, and now the tables have turned...

[Mooninites]

you already asked this, and obviously no one wanted to read your novel the first time, why the hell would they want to read it a second

[RM]

Have you ever heard of paragraphs?

All this friending and unfriending, following and unfollowing. Oh my gosh. You have unfriended her, so leave it be. If she has anything more to say to you, she will call or text you.

You sound terribly needy too, you should learn to be happy on your own.. and fyi, 45 minutes is not far away. I travel 50 minutes to see my man... If its too far or too much effort, your heart is not in it

[Candy]

Stop thinking about adding or deleting her social networks, it's not necessary. Leave it for a while. I mean stop stalking her and just chill. If she thinks about you, she would text or call you back. What's the point of being obsessed about this while she shows you she doesn't care right? Let time flies for a while, it probably makes her realize or miss anything about you. Or if she will not be into you anymore, leaving her alone will tell her that she isn't that attractive to make a caring guy wait for.

And, as a girl, I'd like to suggest that personal problems should not be share when you are getting to know with someone. Your problems should be told when the relationship between you and her becomes more stable that she is ready to listen and be by your side. However, I understand that you felt comfortable around her that's why you shared. Be more careful next time.

Tell her honestly that you notice she has changed but you will be there when she needs you. Then leave her alone and move on. Don't stalk her. Don't be clingy. This is probably her game to make you stalk her like how she tried to get you at first place. Or she possibly has have bad relationship and she's afraid to have a new one with you. Whatever it is ..... just chill and leave her alone. Good luck. X

[Nisa]

Oh my god! I just read your question... came here for more info and then saw how long your post was and didn't bother to read any more.
Tip for future questions: Keep in short and to the point. Nobody wants to read something that long.