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Jill Pawze · 11-09-2012, 07:23 PM

You're insecure with yourself, that's why you're jealous. He had female friends before dating you, he'll have female friends when you guys break up.

Showing him that you have absolutely no confidence or security with yourself, and that you don't "trust" him, even though he's done absolutely nothing is only going to drive him away.

If he wanted another girl, he'd be with another girl. He's with you. And while he's with you, he's allowed to have female friends, he's allowed to talk to other females, he can hang out in a group with other females.

*TasteR* · 11-09-2012, 07:23 PM

no dont be jealous and the no trust thing well you might wanna start trusting him......just saying

Emmerrr · 11-09-2012, 07:23 PM

I understand where you are coming from, but there is no need to be jealous. I'm sure you have friends on facebook that he could be jealous of, but he trys not to be. Or friends in general that may look like a threat to him. It sounds like he loves you, and if you love him, you should trust him. I know it can be hard, believe me, I have been through this before.
Hope this helped!

Brandiibby · 11-09-2012, 07:23 PM

I have the same problem also. But the best thing to do I try Ann respect your guys friends, maybe they don't mean anything just friends(:
hope I helped.

kailua77 · 11-09-2012, 07:23 PM

You need to be comfortable within your own relationship. If his life on the internet is making you uncomfortable, you have every right to say something. My bf has a stupid myspace and I can't stand it. I think it's a great way to create more stress in a relationship by having it. I'm sort of old-fashioned and feel it's way too easy for people to access other people when they are going through a rough spot in their personal lives. Being on a site like Yahoo Q & A you figure out the problems with other people where myspace sort of creates the problems, I feel. However, I am not going to make him take it down, but knowing it is there adds a bit of tension to the relationship for me. This is simply my opinion-take it or leave it. Hope I helped.