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I'm a tad bit.. STUCK. :/ help me please?
10-02-2012, 01:49 PM
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I'm a tad bit.. STUCK. :/ help me please?
Well, It all started off last year around July. A guy mentioned me on twitter, of course I replied. We talked for a while on twitter, So I decided to ask his best friend at school about him. He said that he was a pretty cool dude. So I decided to DM (direct message) my phone number on Twitter. We talked for about 5 months until I found another guy. The reason why It really wasn't working was because It was pretty long distance. Well, we did live in the same state, just different cities. So, I went out with the other guy I found until May. And He was cool about it. We just agreed to hold our relationship off. And besides, we were just friends. So, I guess that since the both of our relationships didn't go well, we began talking again lol. But this time, It wasn't really on a " friend " basis. He was trying to get with me! I've had some pretty fucked up relationships, So I really wasn't looking for another boyfriend for a while. It was surprising to see that he wanted to be with me. I guess he felt a way that I couldn't see. So I decided to let the love bug crawl right back up and bite me. I said yes. We made it official June, 24th. But he has a problem. He won't stop cheating. He has done it so many times. I feel like a dummy to go back to his ass. I've had to break up with him 3 times just to show him that he's missing out on the real thing. It's not that I have a lack of self respect or anything, I just don't understand why I keep on going back to him. It's like one of those relationships you see on Tv. The man treats the woman wrong until she leaves, and now he cries to get her back and promises her that he'll change, And when she comes back, he does the EXACT same thing he did before. I just broke up with him 3 days ago because I feel as if he humiliated me. He said out loud infront of his friends and their girlfriends, " I had hoes, but I let them go for some Bullshit" . I was NOT about to sit there and take that. We argue more than anything. He's rude, self centered, and childish. I don't believe he's boyfriend material. He's not even romantic. Like what girl doesn't want a romantic guy? He never thinks he's wrong. It's like it goes his way, or the highway. We can't compromise, because he never listens to what I have to say. I'm single right now. He keeps on calling and texting me, But I don't want to answer. I believe I've gone back to him far way too many times. Can someone please help me?

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10-02-2012, 01:57 PM
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Just stay away from him, block him on any social media sites, hell change your number if you need to. In a time like this you are gonna need to be strong, see if you can get some emotional support from some friends and keep your mind busy. Get out and maybe casually date- go out on group outings. Simply just enjoy yourself, give your self some time to move on. No one deserves to be cheated on regardless of the circumstances and it just isn't worth the heartache in the long run.

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10-02-2012, 01:57 PM
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Go back to him. He sounds really nice.
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10-02-2012, 01:57 PM
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Listen to taylor Swift's new song. EXCLUSIVELY. And do what it says.

The link is below.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcMn_Eu-XTE
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10-02-2012, 01:57 PM
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Wow, well, he sounds like a total JERK. Don't get back with him, EVER, it's been too many times. You know now that you can't trust him. Don't return his calls or texts. Literally tell him to meet you somewhere (if you know he's not a stalker) and to come alone. When he does, give him a speech about how much of a jerk he is. Pour your heart out. Let him know that he can't just treat girls like objects and let him know that he is a total dick and that you would never ever go out with him again, and you regret falling for him. That would hit him in the face like an unexpected exam you didn't study for.

Or just to make it quick and snappy, just punch him in the face. Seriously, punch him in the face and go get some icecream.

Good luck Smile
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