What is the fastest way to forget about your ex boyfriend?

[worldsnicestteengirl]

I forgot about him by living my life and going out with friends. But he talked to me on facebook. It brought all the menories back. Because I remember all the good times. He has a new girlfriend. He said he misses me as a sister and I doubt it. I tolk him that I dont want to see him anymore, talk, look, Anything. Just PLEASE tell me, what is the fastes way to forget about him again? Cause this is destroying me again!!!

[dawn]

Block him and forget about him. Spend time with friends, have a spa day, whatever is fun for you and time will heal.

[Megan Toro]

Cut all contact with him. It helped me.

[Sara]

There is no healthy or positive way to quickly forget him. Let yourself be sad, cry, be angry, whatever you want to do. Suppressing feelings is a terrible idea. Trust me. If you cant or dont want to be friends, keep him out of your life. Ive made progress before, and everytime I see an ex everything gets screwed up again. Try to keep yourself occupied with things you like. Go out with friends. Do your own thing, girl!

[SOTW]

get another one

.....Hop on a bus Gus. Make a new plan Stan...............

[Addinski]

think of why you're better off without him. make a list of all the ways your life was good until he smashed his way back in. also if you feel like texting him or what ever, distract yourself for twenty or thirty minutes by like watching tv or something and then by that point you'll realize it was just an impulse and that you don't really need him. my friend does this (i never tried it...) but she wears a rubber band and snaps it whenever she thought of him. it worked for her lol

[aes1211]

You HAVE to cut ALL contact with him. Period. No facebook, IM, text, NOTHING. Leave the past and all the it was in the past. The only other thing is time, but the amount of time is different for everyone. So far is seems you are doing the right thing by staying busy and living life and staying around your friends. You just HAVE to cut ALL contact with him. Good Luck girl!

[Lizzie4338]

breaking up is never fun, so i hope you feel better. i recently broke up with a boyfriend whom i was with for a year. it was incredibly difficult, seeing as we were in love but it ended up being to stressful and eventually the feelings fizzled out. it's incredibly hard to forget the good memories, but you have to keep in mind that the relationship wasn't working, or else you'd still be together. and also keep in mind that even if you were to get back with this guy, all the reasons you broke up in the first place would still be there. clearly he's moved on, which means it's time for you to move on as well. here are a couple tips that i hope you find useful.

COMPLETELY block him out of your life. no matter how difficult it seems, or how much he tries to get in contact with you, you have to stay strong. maybe in the future you two will be able to have a decent relationship. but for the time being block him on face book and ignore everything he says to you. it may be tempting to talk to him, but remember that once you do. you're losing all the progress you've made.

going out with your friends is the best way to forget about an ex. continue to look for new and exciting things to do and to keep your mind occupied. don't be afraid to reach out to a friend and talk things over, as that can be helpful too.

lastly, as stupid as this may sound, keep a journal. sometimes writing out your feelings is the best way to come to terms with them.

hope this helps, feel better.

[my own wonderland]

A new girlfriend. I doubt that he misses you as a sister either. That's bs no offense. This is how i got over it.... Im not sure if its going to work to you.
First off, i deleted my account and blocked all his names on IM chats. Break all contact as much as possible. Remind myself that were never never going to be together. Itd going to hurt but its going to help you throw away your hope. I hate to say this but, i tried remembering the bad times. Like the whole reason why we broke up in the first place.