SHOULD I BE EMBARRASSED?

[Grace]

Oookaayy, so what's happened is, on Facebook me and one of my good enough friends (at the moment I hate her for what she did) Were talking about random stuff (school, problems etc.) When we had this really random thing, which I updated my status to, after that I stopped talking for a bit (Was talking to this other guy) when she said "REPLY!" I replied with " (My crushes name here) IS SEXY! That's my reply" then she stopped talking for a bit, I also wrote 'reply' but before I knew it I got a notification that she tagged me in a post, I casually clicked on it and saw that she had updated her status to our conversation and included that I said my crush was sexy and tagged me in it. She isn't friends with my crush on facebook but does have 400 + friends which I know most of them, I'm having a day off tomorrow, but I'm really scared about if anyone else saw it, that may be in some of my classes, OR even more if my crush saw it, I clicked the cross straight away and tried to delete it but I'm not sure if it really did, just only made it unavailable for me to see? but to the point, if he DID infact see it, should I be embarrassed or not? Please answer kindly and this is not a joke, thank you so much.

[Crystal]

Well if he did see it maybe he feels the same way and you'll be happy she did.
But id be upset someone did that out of no where, that's a personal convo and she put it in publics eyes. Who knows what else she puts out there.
But like I said, it could all turn out ok.
Good luck!

[Marry]

Most likely maybe just 1 or 2 people will see it. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. It's not like people check their fb every second...right?

[mezzo_soprano_ak]

You'll save face more if you don't make a big deal out of it. If anyone asks you if you said that or think that, shrug and say something casual like 'Well, he is' with a little smile. If he asks if you think he's sexy, maybe take the opportunity to ask him out if you feel bold. Either way it'll be more likely to become a scandal or a big deal if you act embarrassed and awkward.

[lemmewl]

Nah. Just take it in stride. If you make it visible that she hurt you in some way, she may do it again sometimes, taunting you of what happened when you didn't reply right away (pretty much petty).

If people saw it, let them. You don't depend on their opinions to live, do you?

Have courage.

[Lakota C]

No you shouldn't. If he likes you or not he'll still like it that you think he's sexy.
Plus if he does like you than you might just get yourself a boyfriend or a date out of that crush post.
And if anybody else is trying to make you feel embarrassed than just say"Yeha I do like (crushes name here) or yeah I think that (crushes name here) is sexy. Just don't let them embarrass you and you wont get embarrassed. It's easy if you just don't let yourself get embarrassed. Think of it this way there are a ton of people who have crushes on each other so it's not that big of a deal that you have one. If anyone makes fun of you they probably have a crush on someone too. So I wouldn't worry about it.

[hollowsweater453]

Why should you be embarrassed? Heck, its your life, your crush. Just be yourself, chill, and forget about being embarrassed for such trifles. In a month, you won't even remember this kiddish fiasco!!

[petitemask765]

Wow! Your friend is a real jerk-off no affense. I think you shouldn't be embaressed, I am a guy and found out that a girl who acted like she hated my guts liked me, I didn't go out with her, but I told her not to be embaressed. She told me she wasn't so no don't be embaressed and I geuss if he makes you feel embaressed then I guess he isn't the one to like. Btw I am 15. Good Luck!

[XICarmenIX]

Facebook ain't like twitter where everyone updates themselves so quickly with whats going on with other people's lives. So don't worry it's probably maybe a few people who saw it. Did you check who was online?