What should i do about me and my girlfriend?

[X2010X]

so ive been dating this girl for 3 weeks, but there is this other girl that i liked before i liked my girlfriend but this girl was in a relationship. About a week after the other girl broke up with her boyfriend. Im not cheating or anything but at school this girl is always flirting with me and hugs me and sometimes we talk on facebook...I know she likes me. So the question of time is what should i do?

[Claude B]

The odds are that she may have broken up for you. Take slowly a distance with your present girfriend, and time will fix it.

[BreakofDawn]

Stop all this dating. HIV kills. You young people are so hot in your pants and focus on sex and lustful things too, too much! You are probably going to be the world's next astronaut, President, or Scientist!! Let all these girls just be your friends! Wait for a wife kiddo! Someone who will make love to you, cook for you, go on vacations with you, and give you children one day. Right now focus on your studies!!! Just have friends!!


Love & Happiness 2 you!!

[Kiwi Bird]

If you like more than one girl, you should not be dating either of them. I think you should take some time off and get it figured out in your head. Honestly, most of the time things dont turn out so nice when you go out with a girl who's your second choice. If you really dont like the girl who's now flirty with you but she's just annoying you and u think u might be tempted. then explain that to your current girlfriend if you think your relationship is strong enough.

[baby.giggles]

Well you should think really good about who you want to be with before you and your girl are in a longer relationship. You don't want to go on with your girl and be thinking about this other girl, or you don't want to go on and brake up with your girl and get with this other girl and you realized how much you liked your ex. So just think about what you want in life.

[Mark V]

In grammar school, unless you're just jumping from girl to girl to girl, you should do whatever you feel safe doing. If you want to date the "first" girl, then date the first girl. But think about it first, because this will probably mean that if you ever decide, for whatever reason, that you want to go back to dating the girl who you're currently with - it probably isn't going to happen. Neither girls nor guys like to feel as if someone's coming back to them just because the "more interesting" person is out of the picture.

However, as I said, these will not be long term relationships that will be important to you after you graduate and go on to college (or whatever your destination). After high school, most people completely lose touch with everyone else, no matter how closer they might have been. Even in very rare cases of people going on to a college together as a couple... things usually change quickly.

Just keep those things in mind.