My boyfriend is telling all my friends my deepest secrets what do i do?

[Nobody]

Break up with him

[Kayy]

uhmmm if hes telling your deepest secrets then thats just stupid and ignorant of him. hes obviously not a good boyfrind.

[Bre&Demarius!]

do whats best for you... cut him loose

[Jill Hoffman]

untrustworthy bastard

[Melanie]

Well first off break up with him and then deny you said anything of the sort.

[johnb693]

I know sometimes you just have to unload on someone, especially if you think of them as your friend.
This boy, certainly isn't one that you can trust. So break up with him, and if some other friend asks you about your secrets, just tell them,you were just testing him to see if he could keep a secret and you found out, he can't. What you told him about yourself, was just all made up, so don't believe a word he says, and don't trust him with any of their secrets either.
Next time, if you feel the need to unload a secret, be sure you can really trust the one you are sharing your secret with.

[Emily]

Tell him to stop. If that doesn't work, he's obviously not right for you - he can't even keep something secret from your friends. If they're your friends, they should keep it quiet anyway, but I would break up with him if he keeps doing it, and delete him from facebook, keeping your friends hidden from people who aren't friends, so he can't find out any other friends to tell.

If your friends are still spreading things, tell them he was lying, and get revenge through his friends
Unless it's a secret that needs to be told; if it's something really important, he might just be trying to protect you.

[Stasia]

number one: your boyfriend is a assh*le!
number two: he's your boyfriend, so he should be the one who keeps all your secrets, not spread it.

you said you told him your secrets because he doesnt live by you. so there could be a misunderstanding and he might think that "your secret" wasn't actually a secret OR he could always think that since he's so far, he should tell your friends so they can help you for him.

but he should atleast have the common sense to know figure out that you dont want those information shared. if he doesnt know you well enough to think that what he did was okay, then i suggest you break up with him.

[Inferno]

leave him hes a total waste of life. im sorry this happened i know what its like when u tel someone ur deepest secrets and that person betrays u but hes not worth it only tell people this kind of stuff when they are proven trustworthy people suggested to me that u test the person with much smaller secrets and tests etc. and see how they do with that before telling them inportant stuff. moving on isnt easy but its necessary. good luck hun

[debbie]

Perhaps he is truly concerned for you. I'm not really sure exactly what is happening in your life were you are concerned about social services. Does he have a legitimate reasoning for seeking others advise as to what you may be going through? How bad is this home your in? I think him putting your info out there the way he did was not the classiest thing to do but at the same time I can't help thinking you may need to call social services yourself. As far as your boyfriend you need to contact him and ask him why and then find a true friend that can help you decide how to handle your home life.