How do i tell my ex girlfriend that i went through her facebook without her getting mad at me?

[paintballer]

I went through her facebook and found messages to other people that made me really upset, they where about me. so i just want to tell her i went through her facebook and so we can talk about the messages. but i also dont want her to be very mad at me for going through it. what should i do?

[Absolut]

You wouldn't have found those messages if you hadn't snooped. You were in the wrong.

[bill g]

hang your head in shame

[Cecilia]

if shes your ex you probably shouldnt say anything. just let it go and stop talking to her if she hurt you

[WhiteWolf]

Just be like

"I love you!" Buy her something really amazing that she'll love then be like

"Oh by the way, I went on your facebook because I thought facebook was down, and I wanted to see if it would work on your account and it did."

Oh and then you read the messages by accident.

[soulman]

Not going to happen. best not to tell her about your creeping.
Also don't go though you friends facebook anymore account that just creepy.

[Michelle Paul]

Sorry to say but you were definitely in the wrong there. There's no way you can really tell her without her getting mad as you completely invaded her privacy and what you did was as wrong as what she did. I would just drop the matter.

[Babytatatatalking]

hmmm..let me see..if you wont do such a thing again and if you are sure you wont do such a thing again, dont tell her about that facebook thing..then ask her indirectly about the things you read in the messages..lets see how smart she is. )

[hilson]

Be brave. Just tell her the TRUTH

[Dickey Dick]

That sounds like very hard to achieve, pal. But first you tell me, is she the girl who would be really upset about things like that? If the answer is yes, then there's no way around it. Don't tell her. If you feel you cannot stand what you feel about those messages then be brave enough. She is your ex girlfriend after all!
Another approach could be trying to get her say something about those messages or the people who send them w/o her knowing you already know. There must be a way if you really know her, boy.