Twitter and its direct messages?

[Bhy]

Yesterday I sent a direct message randomly and quickly deleted it,in fact the user can "recall" a direct msg before it gets read by the addressee...so that person should not read it...but his email account could receive the notification of the msg and read it...how can I stop that notification or how can I understand if he allowed Twitter to send notifications to the email account???HELP PLEASE.

[Music Seawater]

This is a lesson we all have to learn at our own pace, for me it took clicking Send twice, before I learned my lesson and slowed down before sending out something I might regret later.

What I do now, is make these messages a draft for an hour or a day (depending on how angry I am), THEN deciding whether to send it off or not and you know what?

Most times I find that just writing the email was outlet enough and I end of deleting the thing and no one even knows how mad or hurt or jealous I was.....

~m~