Did/Does he really like/love me? HELP!?

[Ashley M]

I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year, my freshmen year of college all the way till now (sophomore) year and now I'm utterly confused. The guy knows I've never had a boyfriend, I don't know what he think he's pulling but I don't like it, I think he think's I'm dumb and don't know what to look for in the right guy. I was kinna ify about him because when I met him it was supposed to be a one night thing and now I'm just so caught up in some mess I just don't know what to do! I've been crying and all that junk because I'm confused and thinking that all he said was a lie just to keep me around. I really don't think I'm the one he's looking for because I have dreams and goals, and I'm not from a big city so I don't really go out and party. I'm not like everyone else, I just go to class and try to worry about that I guess I'm the outcast of campus? lol. But he's 24 years old I just really thought he wouldnt be playing games w/me b/c something that started out so simple, ended with a big bang. I had no intentions to fall for this guy but the first year of college it was basically like a "f*ck buddy" type thing, Fall semester it was kicking!! Spring, I started drifting away because I sort of did start to like him. I just wasn't trying to go there because I've been hurt before and is emotionally scarred... then summer rolled around we barely speak to each other, we spoke maybe about 2 times that summer (he went to Miami so i understand..), I had deleted his number and everything but when I came back to school for my second year, things changed by landslide... I didn't plan on ever speaking or seeing him again but we happened to see each other at the bookstore (JUST MY LUCK) ...unfortunatly he still had my number, so...I ended up seeing and speaking to him again -__- ...i wanted to but then again I didn't want to because I didn't intend to. So this ONE night, (he never done this before) I arrive at his apartment to drink wine with him like he requested and candles lit (it was way too strong! lol! he tried to hard right there) listened to music, he even played the song that remind him of me and we..well.. I put as little genuine info out on the table as possible to protect my feelings. He had seen tweets on my twitter abt how beautiful i thought this guy was in my eyes and he asked questions to figure out if it was him i was talking about, and I was, and asked if I've found anyone else attractive n all that "Serious" stuff.. so maybe he was trying to turn "nothing into something?" Then of course the night went on did grown thangs and we watchin a movie, he asked a couple other questions one of them that i remember he asked if I liked him I broke out a smile and hesitantly said yes, and he said he liked me too and that there was no need to fight the feeling. the next morning i dnt know if he really meant it but he asked If I wanted to be his g/f I just didn't answer b/c I thought it was st8 out of lust b/c we're laying next to each other, but he said he'll be waiting when I'm ready. After tht night i kept speaking and seeing him when he asked/talked but I never call/text him b/c I know that if a guy really wants me he'd continue to put in that effort and he told me how he feels about me not ever calling/texting him.I just want to be sure he is really feeling me the way he says before I make any moves. So when I put my feelings out he started getting sketchy, calling other girls baby/boo on twitter and things, saying mean tweets and stuff like that, is he trying to get my attention? he says its just twitter n it's not that serious, well it is very serious to me when im laying in bed w/you and you call me those names too like i'm supossed to be special..i dont like that. I told him how i felt about that, and there was a time he talked bad about my hair too on twitter, (he claim he wasn't talking about me but i know he was!) basically long story short he hasn't been textn/callin like he used to but most the time it'd be at night, but he would still send me good morning texts and call and see what im doing in the middle of the day, he's been mean lately, telling other girls that he misses them, saying mean tweets and just everything...just doing the most. I just think that if he really liked me he would take me out, come see me after his trips to the gym on campus, go on a walk with me, you know simple things like that, I never really made it past the bedroom so I quit. How does a guy expect a girl to say yes to being his girlfriend if she has only been in his bed?? I deleted everything, his number, my facebook and twitter, I just don't want him to have any access to me b/c I'm hurt b/c I think that I fell into a trap. I really see potential in him, I can most def. see us being together we're alike in many ways, everyth
And if anything helps you guys I never ever kissed him because a kiss to me meant that I really really like him and I wasn't trying to give that away, but he would kiss me on my neck and do very intimate things during sex, he also had urges to kiss me on my lips I never volunteered to kiss him on the lips i would always back away until I came back around sophomore year so basically I came more close and attatched to him 2nd year

[pelican]

I think he does like you for sure.