Should I let go or stay?

[LovePink*]

It's easier said than done. Me and my bf been together for over a year. Our relationship has alot of establishments and we always talk about our future and trying to manage the present. Long story short, this friend of his who I don't know, but have an idea of, use to like him. They've known each other for 4 years. Somehow she's came back around because it's his last semester and they have a class together. Every since then, it's like on and off I've been getting gut feelings that ends up coming out of the closet mentally. We're always together so I know it's nothing physical, but I caught her calling him "Babe" in his Twitter DM. I came to him about this situation and her, but we ended up fighting. He deleted her number and unfollowed her on Twitter and stuff, but something still isn't adding up at all. Everything else is long story. I'm just to the point where I'm starting to feel the need of letting him go but we've established ALOT together. He doesn't know that I'm considering this though but I'm fed up.

[Bma92]

If you are fed up you should listen to your gut and move on. The gut doesn't lie. As far as your history and what you have established, yes this is hard but sometimes necessary to let go. You do not have to let go completely, you can always have those memories and hold it in your heart as a special time for you. But just know, no matter what relationship you get in to, you will establish things as well. This comes with the territory. So I do not believe that should be the reason for you to stay.

[fOreSt]

Oh, I am having somewhat the same dilema. Me nd my BF have planned our whole future but I feel I should not stay. Well it is good that you approached the subject w/ him nd it matters a lot on how he reacted. If he got butt hurt at the first mention of it then something is wrong and if not then maybe it was just her. One red flag though is that he should have told you she was calling him that, bcuz Im sure hed want the same. Me and BF usually tell each other if anything lke that occurs. If smthign in your gut is telling you then mayb think it through and consider. bcuz gut feelings are usually right.
all the best luck to you.

[fOreSt]

If you have tried talking to him about this and it ends up in a huge fight ,then i think you should consider going on a BREAK. I believe this will help out both you . He probably doesnt want to admit to himself he has somewhat feelings for this friend and the break will give him liberty to figure it out and as for you have you ever heard the saying that goes IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE LET THEM GO IF THEY COME BACK THEYRE YOURS.

[me]

do what you feel because once a trust gone its very difficult to regain.