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How can I get over her? Please help!?
10-02-2012, 06:47 PM
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How can I get over her? Please help!?
So I was in this relationship with this girl for a few months and I broke up with her because frankly she a total ***** to all of my girl and guy friends when I wasn't with them which I did not totally believe until we broke up and a whole new batch of things she said came up. We clicked pretty well and I actually really liked her. We share the same interests and just liked each other. Its been about 3 weeks since it happened and I feel that I still miss her. I know all of you will say to just wait it out but I need more advice. I cant find a girl to take my mind off of her because i live in a small town. Whenever I see her comment or something on Facebook or Twitter I get a big feeling in my gut that I miss her. I don't want another relationship with her or even talk to her but this feeling is overwhelming. I am listening to sad music every day and the only thing that gets her off of my mind is when I am playing hockey, which I play at very high level and get to do often. Anyways, I always think about her with another guy or having her 'first time' with a different person just pisses me off and I don't even know what I would do if she went out and banged a guy. She wasn't for me in the end and want her just out of my mind. She did text e last week in which I did not reply but made sure she knew that I saw the message. (we were using imessage)

Any advice for this?

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10-02-2012, 06:55 PM
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if you really want to get over her then hang out with friends that will keep your mind off of her, delete her number, facebook, etc.,and i know you probably dont want to hear this like you said but youll find another "love" goodluck!

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10-02-2012, 06:55 PM
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Give her some space and she'll realize that she misses you to, then set your priorities straight with her and tell her you want some changes. Until then, hang out with your friends and have some guy time, do something stupid and reckless that reminds you, that you don't need her to have fun.
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10-02-2012, 06:55 PM
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Did u think to pray? (U might be atheist or something but I had to throw it out there. God Will hear u and answer!) Just have a guys night out with ur buddies. Do things that u know she would hate (most girls don't like action movies so rent some of the toughest bloodiest there is) go read a book. Take ur mom and go to a differnt restaront that u have never tried. Do some yoga when the feelings hit u the most (its really relaxing!) Go mudding. If ur friends know ppl for a neighboring town, have then throw u a party with their friends and their friends friends so u can meet new people. Most of all
Just let loose. Make up ur mind and say I don't want her any more! Remind urself all the bad things that she has done in the past that pushed ur bottons. God bless. I pray u can find ur way
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