How do you confront someone when you read something and they don't know?

[kjsdglksa]

So today i was messaging my boyfriend on Facebook and i thought i had just deleted a message he just sent to me so I know his password so I was going to check if he had on his Facebook. But then I came acrossed a message where he had been talking to my best friend so I of course got curious and looked at it and found out they where talking about me and things he found to be a problem and I want to fix those problems so how should I confront him when he doesn't know I've read it?

[Andrea]

As much as I want to say dont confront him, you have to. It will probably eat at you until you do. Honosty is also good in a relationship. I just find it weird that your best friend didnt tell you.

[Amber H]

I agree with the first person. You have to tell him. And why would he even be talking to your friend in the first place if something is wrong in a relationship it's you he needs to talk to about it not your friend. How is talking to your friend going to solve anything when it's you he is in a relationship with?? Don't freak out on him whatever you do though. I know you probably wantto but be calm and just communicate with him about it. And have an unemotional way about it just be open and honest cuz that is what you do in relationships. If something is wrong you talk about it and fix it and try to work on things to make it better