My friends keep telling me I should get a Facebook but I'm worried my husband will get upset?

[Cherrynd19]

He's kind of a jealous person and he will probably think that I will talk to strangers or exes but I really just want to keep in touch with my friends and relatives. What should I do? And please don't tell me how he shouldn't be jealous because he just is i just want to know how I should go about this. Thanks!

[roundstring025]

Suggest the two of you make a account together. That way you can stillparticipate with your friends, and your husband won't feel threatend. You call also post pictures of you two together.....

[kelannde]

Make an account, put up a pic of the two of you, and make sure he has the password. That way he can see what you are doing. It might help him get over some of his angst and jealousy.

[Ryan S]

I think you need to listen to his concerns about you having a facebook account and have a discussion about it. Why not have a joint facebook account for the two of you?

[UngratefulLeader869]

facebook seems to be a place where people lay everything out for all to see-i guess if you are responsible and careful, it might be fine

[redhead27]

i think its refreshing to hear that you are considering your husbands feelings and you care about what will and could hurt your marriage. I think this is healthy and this is what spouses should do.

Are you able to talk to him about why you want a facebook account?

Reassure him why you want to do this so that his jealousy is not fired up by this.

[TrueBlond]

I am not a fan of facebook. People are able to tag you in photos which you are able to google. I find facebook is a social waist of time. I am already talking to the friends I want to keep friends close, why would I want to speak with those I chose not to many years ago? I tried facebook for a bit. ya its a bit addicting but its not worth the hassle from your husband. Every time a guy adds you it will be drama and every time some man sends you a message or writes on wall it will be question after question and its really not worth the hassle. Every time someone posts a picture and a guys in it. It will be more drama then you need and want in your relationship. Its not worth it. I would just stay away.

[Dani Addeo]

Make a face book account that you share and put a pic up of the two of you and edit your info as married and all that and I am sure he will be okay with it.

[beautifullyundone]

make it a joint face book account. Put his info on there too and give him the user name and password and let him know he can check it any time. If you guys have a strong marriage though, he would trust you.