Should i break up with my girlfriend if she is talking dirty to other guys?

[Bambii]

Uhh.. yeah. Definitely. Caaussee I doubt its just talking.

[dana]

is she stupid? really? she tells you to delete her messages and IS SHE NOT THAT BRIGHT TO KNOW YOU MAY LOOK THROUGH THEM. I MEAN REALLY. dump her! What a cheater.

[Jada]

ya totally because she supposed to only like u 'cause your her boyfriend and if she's talking dirty to other guys then she doesn't love as much as you love her..p.s. im only 12 so i don't know if im right or not

[Ketty]

That's not cool at all. Listen, all women love attention. And it doesn't necessarily mean that she's cheating but it may be a warning sign. If she was in love with u then she wouldn't need to talk to other guys. However, since she trusts u enough to delete her messages, she clearly has nothing to hide. If it's bothering u, then approach her. Say u accidentally clicked on one of them during deletion and stumbled upon something that's bothering u. Say that u though it was something personal between u two and u'd prefer if it stayed that way. Don't freak out or anything. Just simply approach her. Relationships should be based on honesty and trust. Don't hide ur feelings my dear. Good luck

[Cambria]

drop it like its hot dude

[Chiquita Bonita]

I think you should talk to her about it before taking any drastic measures. Obviously if she's asking you to delete them (which by the way is a bizarre request), it's because she knows you'll read some of them (no one can resist that kind of temptation). Maybe she's doing it on purpose to get your attention, maybe she doesn't realize she's doing anything wrong. Point is, if it was cheating for her, she wouldn't trust you with her fb password in the first place. She's not trying to hide them, so either 1. she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong, or 2. she's doing it on purpose to get your attention, because as i said, it's a bizarre request to delete fb messages. so i suggest you talk to her, tell her that it bothers you, that you wouldn't do that, tell her how she'd feel in your shoes, etc. and see what happens from there. good luck!

[Jackie]

Yeah its a form of cheating.. Its not physical cheating but emotional. If she's talking dirty to someone else than she most likely has feelings for them too. And chances are she'll act upon those feelings. End it now before you really get hurt. Goodluck

[Jessica]

wow well tlkin dirty eventually will lead to sumn else so u might as well look for sum1 who will tlk dirty to u n only u! i kno if my man did dat i wud drop his ass in a heart beat! especially tlkin dirty! oh no dats not gud at all!

[Elizabeth Smith]

It's possible she was just talking with no intention to follow through, but that's disrespectful at the very least. She is creating expectations in this other guy's mind that he has a chance with her. I wonder how he could respect you if she is willing to talk to him the way she talks to you...her bf. I would definitely confront her. She will probably get defensive so you will have to stay calm and rational. You need to tell her that her behavior is not appropriate and is creating an environment of distrust. I don't know if I would stick around to change her mind and babysit her emails. You may be risking a lot to stay in this relationship. I guess you can talk to her and see what she says first.

[James Blackley]

Yes having 'cybersex' is 100% cheating, theres no way around it. Shes basically wanting to or imaganing him kissing her, touching her, and having sex with her even though shes in a relationship with you. I'm not going to lie, she was turned on by it, she probably masturbated when they talked dirty, and she may have even orgasmed during it.

She was being VERY disresepectful and cruel by cheating on you, she not only cheated on you she lied to you. If thats not bad enough she's brazen about it, it's almost as if she wants you to find out by going through her messages.

I would bring this up with her, let her know you saw/read her messages to this other guy and that your extremely upset with you. She can't come back with anything because she gave you her consent to go into her FB and see her messages.

I can tell you this: She's not remorseful for cheating, and she doesnt feel bad that she hurt you either. If I were you I'd break up with her right away.