Is he interested in my girlfriend or am i overacting?

[jollygrade197]

One of my friends introduced me to this guy because they though we would be good friends. He sent me a friend request on facebook he also sent my girlfriend a facebook request. I became a little flustered because i am insecure because i have been cheated and lied to in my past relationships by men and women. I get very insecure when men flirt with women im dating because i am a women myself and i cant compete with guys.
11 hours ago - 4 days left to answer

[Weezie Butcher]

u got bamboosled.

[Foxy96Girl]

Dont feel insecure. If your girlfriend is true and honest to you, she wont cheat on you. Its ok to let your girlfriend have guy friends. My bf has friends that are girls and idk mind. Cause in my heart i honestly trust him and he trusts me.

[MuddyRiverGirl]

I think that you are over-reacting, he probably just sent the request in a friendly way, but if this really bothers you then ask your girlfriend if it is happening and add that you just don't want to lose her and you were just wondering about it.

[Manish Gurung]

no its just your negative feeling don't be so negative.if you don't belive or trust in your friend please try to understand your girl friend and try to keep trust in her.

[john]

Don't worry too much about this because if your relationship is strong then what could get in the way of it. Although it hurts when somebody cheats on you they have done you a service by freeing you from a loveless relationship. You didn't clarify in your question whether your girlfriend is also bisexual. If she is not then your fear is irrational. For some people it is a real pleasure to flirt, it does not mean they will hop into bed at a moment's notice though. Take a moment to consider how wonderful and unique you are. Your girlfriend most likely loves you very much but there is always a danger. It's called a self fulfilling prophecy and it could rock your world if you don't put these insecurities to rest. If you keep mistrusting your spouse there will be nothing for her to lose by cheating. Not feeling trusted by your partner is a huge, huge issue. You can't change overnight and there is history with previous partner's to validate your fears but take my word for this or repent at leisure.
I do hope you can just relax and enjoy time out going different places and socialising in general. If you see your girl chatting with anyone or vice versa just ignore that feeling in your stomach. It's problem thinking not problem behaviour that is hurting you. If your girlfriend begins to believe that you trust her and that you can both go anywhere, speak to anyone and have a genuinely good time (with no blazing jealous rows) then what you will have is twofold. A healthy relationship and a healthy social circle. Nobody could separate you then. The very best of luck to you.
Oh and P.S to Adam Kelly who doesn't help gay les or bi people. You seriously need to grow up and learn how to treat people. You did not have to answer the question (which you didn't, therefore violating the guidelines) and there is no recourse for homophobic and discriminative comments (which you submitted) I hope people report you if they find your comments distasteful