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My mom is really mad at me, and i don't know what to do?
10-02-2012, 07:12 PM
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My mom is really mad at me, and i don't know what to do?
Okay. so today on twitter i was ticked off at my mom after she said some things about my brother's wife, so i said this: "Out of all the people i know who talk shit, my mom does it the most. That's sad" And i said it because it's true. I could explain and explain on here, but idk if any of you can understand how mean my mom can be. She talks about everyone, calls them fat ugly, talks about their situation and not only to me. Me and my mom doesn't have the greatest relationship. i mean yeah i love her. but we fight almost every day. i hate even typing about this because it's too hard to not cry. She's just negative energy through and through, and is the reason i'm struggling with keeping my weight down, because she always talks about that too. but anyway, yeah i said that about her on twitter, and she saw it because i accidentally forgot to sign off. i said it because i have no where else to go to vent. i have no one to talk to. and i have so much pent up anger about what she says to me about how i look, and about others. I don't know what to say. should i say "sorry i said that about you mom but it's true." ? Ugh i just don't know what to do. please help :/ and don't say that i should be nicer to my mom, just don't. you obviously can't tell what kind of person she is from here. me and my siblings can see it, but she can't, she never will. sorry i'm making this so long i just felt like i had to explain why i said it.

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10-02-2012, 07:20 PM
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She has the right to be mad. You NEVER post things about stuff like that on twitter,facebook,or anything else. But you also have a right to be mad. Go apologize to her...you did something worse than her. You told all of your followers bad things about your mom,and thats so hurtful to her. Your mom doesnt say things like that infront of everyone. I know you didnt mean it like that but tat went a bit too far. Go apologize but also explain to her that its true,and that she should really stop because it hurts you. And delete that tweet right beside her and make sure she sees.

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10-02-2012, 07:20 PM
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Okay, I would defenitley tell her the TRUTH. Say your sorry, but tell her how you feel, tell her how she always is judging people, and is always talking shit about them...but DONT yell this at her, trust me, it wont get you anywhere! The point is to talk to her, to get the message thru her head. Talk to her in a sincere, calm voice (But don't fake it) and work something out. Because she may not realize she does this all the time, so make an effort to point it out when she says stuff like that. When you point it out, dont be like "Oh my god I cant beleive you just said that!" just be like "Hey, Mom, maybe you shouldn't be saying that." and if she gets mad at you for doing this, say that your just trying to help, because thats all your trying to do, is help. If you often get really pent up about your mother, i suggest getting a journal, and venting, it really helps! And, it really wouldn't hurt to see a counselor about this, either, like a relationship counselor, just think about it. So, try making compromises with your mom. If your mom promises to watch what she says about other people, you'll promise to not say things like that on Twitter...hope I helped! Smile
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