Ladies, how would you feel if your boyfriend had a few pictures up of him and his ex girlfriend on facebook?

[Ssina K]

Ladies, how would you feel if your boyfriend had a few pictures up of him and his ex girlfriend on facebook?

[talktalk]

Do you really want a boyfriend who would disrespect you in this way?

[*blah*]

I probably wouldn't like it. It would make me wonder why he still has them up, if he still had feelings for her, or if he was wasting my time.

[ed shewfelr]

It wouldn't bother me.

[Kenny]

Tell him your with him now and to get rid of the pictures and replace them with pictures of you two

[April]

I would not be happy about that at all! I think you should look for someone who can show you more respect than that.

[Ruth]

I guess it would depend on:
1 What they were doing in the pictures.
2 how long me and my boyfriend have been dating.
3 if i had any pics of my ex.
if my boyfriend and i havent been dating long and the pics are just of them hanging out...then whatever...i would maybe ask him to get rid of them, but i wouldnt be pissed if they werent gone right away.

[thrills]

Realistically, if they were up there prior to him dating me it would obviously bother me a little bit but guys don't really think about small stuff like that and I don't think they would consider this at all as a reason to start a fight etc. Those are memories just like those that we all have and just because they are up there does not mean he is thinking about her or that she means more to him than you. She is still a part of his past, I wouldn't say anything because it's something that should not bother me at this point and it is necessary to move forward. I know girlfriends who have had constant issues with ex gfs over small things like this and bringing stuff like that up will only remind him of her more and maybe cause him to think about her more often. If they were put up while we were dating however, that would be a totally different question!

[Carly Liberatore]

if the pictures are old profile pictures....from my experience i didnt take those down because i still liked seeing them once and awhile and wasnt ready to take them down. once i was over it all i did.

if they are recent pictures then id be worried

if they are old pictures in an album he might just not think to have cleaned them up. maybe mention it to him. if they are intimite kissy pics...those should go