What does it mean when a guy with a gf confides his true feelings but on Facebook says things are great?

[The Wrong Category Police!]

Like he's going through something in his life and he tells you he feels a little sad but on fb says everything is great.
Also, would you think the guy is hiding his feelings from his girlfriend? Does that mean he likes the girl he confides in or is he using her for comfort?

[Faseo D]

Never take something seriously when written by a boy on facebook, you know when a boy is saying something to the girl and don't making eye contact with her that means he is telling a lie. Use that trick to find the fact.

[Amia]

Hey Bree,

I'm guessing he's smart enough or introverted enough that he doesn't feel comfortable expressing all of his emotions in such an open format like Facebook.

As for his feelings for his girlfriend. Well that really depends on their relationship. Time together. Seriousness of. & their overall commitment to one another.

Now if your the confidant Bree please be careful! If you like this guy & he's just using you to vent you could end up hurt. If he's unsure about his relationship but finally decides to stay with his girlfriend he might feel uncomfortable around you when this current crisis subsides.

On the other hand I've found that being direct with a boy works best. It can cause some discomfort & some embarrassment for you of course (no risk, no reward). If you like him letting him know it puts the ball in his court. He'll either return that interest or withdraw from you. At least then you'll know where you stand with him.

Be Fearless Bree