Is it normal to love, or have a crush on someone you have never talked to. Not even online.?

[Lucy Spiers]

I have looked at his profile on facebook many times. Every time he walks past or looks at me I feel an adrenaline rush and I feel nervous. I know about him because of my brothers talking about him but they say he's a jerk.

[g-gupp]

it's normal to have a crush on someone who u think is cute, just like having a little crush over a singer or celebrity. try talking to him since ur brother's know him, be like "hey, u hang out with my brothers? cool, i'm his sis(:" and if he's rude to u, forget about him, it's better to forget now where u barely know him then later on where u might have a heartbreak.

[princess1995]

yes i never had it..but my cousin had it alll the time:3

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[Leonardo S]

I don't think it's possible to love someone you have never talked to, but it is definitely possible to have a crush on someone you've never met. My first crush was from afar, a boy in my junior high english and geography class, who I had barely spoken two words to the entire two years I was there. Yet, I had a massive crush on him for most of my eighth grade year.

My current boyfriend, I had always been attracted to him, from the moment I first saw him. My attraction graduated into a huge crush after a short conversation with him in the school registration line. For the next two or three months after that one short conversation, I hadn't spoken to him; yet, I found him on MySpace, read all of his blogs and status updates, and looked at all of his pictures; and the crush grew even more, even though I had spoken to him once. Other than what he displayed on MySpace, I knew NOTHING about him. I finally got the guts to "friend" him, and we were friends for several months after that before we started dating. And now we've been together for two and a half years. So yes, it's definitely possible to have a crush on somebody you've never talked to.

But, unless your brothers have the tendency to lie or stretch the truth a lot, I would pay attention to what they're saying, that he's a jerk. Be careful. I'm sure your brothers don't want to see you get hurt.

[Chachi]

I don't know about love but crush of course! Do you ever wonder how most people even hook up? Pure looks. A person can automatically develop a sort of fantasy like personality of a person they just looked at, making them more connected to this crush. For example you may admire your crushes interests more than you would with anyone else, sometimes even making yourself dwell in his interests too just to be alike.

So all in all yes, now the first step is to actually talk to him.

Good luck and much love

[jo64hn]

ye its ok i had a two month crush on a girl i never really talked to but was really cute i don't like her anymore. its grand don't worry

[Oso Impulsive]

Not love, but indeed, crush! I had a massive crush when I was 15-16 on this lad that was in my GCSE history class after our classes merged (their original teacher left) for year 11 and him and this guy sat in front of me. He wasn't a hot model or anything, but he was extremely cute and had one of those immature daft personalities and it drove me crazy. I never, ever spoke to him in person, but I found out his second name from a friend and found his MySpace (which was 'the' social network back then). It had him and his girlfriend, and though it was private, I'd just.. admire it. lol.

When I got Facebook I added him and I was surprised when he accepted, it also had his MSN addy, so I added him on MSN ("random" add). We spoke a bit on that, but after the initial convo, he didn't really speak to me much. He'd just use one-liners to talk to me ("yeah", "ok", "lol") so the convos were never meaningful. I'd speak to him every now and again, but when we were in sixth form I did confess I had a crush. He was nice about it I guess, he just said he didn't feel anything because I'd never spoken to him in person, how he has no reason to feel anything and bluntly even said he didn't care (I asked if he cared). I never spoke to him after this. I left it at that, I suppose. But during the months I crushed on him I always looked at his Facebook profile, kept "up to date" with him, and so on. Then a year later, my friend (who was in his A level Biology class) said that I came up in conversation and he told people how I used to talk to him on MSN 24/7 (exaggeration), but never in person and how I.. disgusted him.. for some reason. At this stage I was well over him, but I felt a bit pissed off about that, so I've deleted him from Facebook. He's a tw/\t and definitely not the person I thought he was.

When you don't speak to people your mind actually manufactures their personality from the little you know about them, and this is what happened me, and you're probably subconsciously doing it yourself. It's normal to crush on people this way (in fact I'd say 80% of crushes are like this), but if you want to make something of it, you *must* make the effort of speaking to them in person. Don't do the whole 'online crush' through Facebook or whatever, because people only put the best of themselves on Facebook (generally) and gives you a distorted vision of their true personality. I often ponder if I'd been a bit more confident and actually spoken to him more in person, if things might have been different, but hey, I haven't seen him in over a year and Life goes on. lol.

Sorry for the essay anyways, this has just randomly been on my mind!