I really need help getting over this guy, help?!?!?

[Alison]

Okay so we made plans to hang out tomorrow.
But yesterday I saw him talking to another girl on Twitter and I don't know why but I got SO jealous.
I knew they were texting cause he said he was going to text her and then told her to look at her phone and I'm just sitting there like -.-
Earlier today he texted me asking if we're still hanging out tomorrow with a smiley face and I straight up said no and made up an excuse as to why I can't.
Then we made plans to hang out on Friday but I ended up bailing on him again.
I am doing this on purpose because I'm mad at him, but he doesn't know I'm mad.
....I don't even know WHY I'm mad at him. I just am.

I'm being so rude to him right now and I've done this in the past before too, and then end up apologizing and saying I'm on my period but I know deep down it's only because I want to see and I want him to SHOW if he really cares about me as much as he says he does.

Do I like him as more than a friend?
He's like my best friend.
I really DON'T want to have these kind of feelings for him.
And I want to stop being so rude to him for no freaking reason and getting jealous just because he talks to another girl (Sometimes he wouldn't even flirt with them and I STILL get jealous)
We have flirted before, and we even sexted.
But I'm aware that I'm probably not the only girl he flirts with.

But anyways, how do I make these feelings go away?
I've even thought about losing my virginity to him and being "friends with benefits" with him so I won't fall in love with him but that's only going to make my feelings stronger right?

What do I do? Now he's mad at me and he said he's tired of making plans with me only for me to end up bailing in the end. Sometimes, he even cancels his plans to hang out with me and I end up bailing. I feel bad.

I've bailed on him in the past before but it's only because I couldn't hang out (Grounded, no ride, etc) typical problems like that. I really wanted to see him though and I let him know. Now, I'm not even sure anymore if I want to see him. Should I just avoid him? My parents disapprove of him by the way. They think he is a bad influence because he smokes and they have caught us sexting before. They even saw the half naked pictures I sent him. (they snooped through my phone)

We are both 16 btw. Any kind of help is greatly appreciated, thanks!
the fact that my parents disapprove of him makes it EVEN harder to see him. I'm trying to tell myself I don't care about him, but deep down I know I do. And I want to see him so bad.

[Marie Tucker]

Just quit bailing on him! Go on a date and see if any sparks fly. If they don't, just act like you thought you guys were going as friends the whole time. But I really think you should give him a chance, he obviously wants to give you one. And most importantly, screw whoever doesn't approve of him, if he's the one they can deal with it. It's your life. Good Luck!(: