Is it normal that i feel like stalking my ex new girlfriend on face book?

[ntia]

Unfortunately ,i am still not over my ex even though its been more than year.He doesn't have a face book account my his girlfriend does.I envy her and find myself getting tempted to look at her pictures on face book all the time.Her profile is open so i am bale to look at her pictures even she is not on my list.

However,i am refraining from doing it because i think it would do more harm than good.Is it weird i feel like doing this?

Is this normal?

[Brideof2010]

Yup its normal. I did that too. I don't think its healthy though. It causes more harm than good. I think you should try your best and move on.

[elljay]

It's weird... But normal I think everybody does it with the fear that they have been replaced. 'oh she's prettier than me' or vice versa 'her face is so much wider than mine ugh'. My best friend used to do it when her ex got a new girlfriend and compared herself to her :/

[Sparrow]

If you keep doing this you are simply feeding an unhealthy habit. You will never get over your ex if you keep looking at his girlfriends pictures etc. Make a daily conscious decision not to look.

[E-ma]

Define "normal"
1. usual: conforming to the usual standard, type, or custom
2. healthy: physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy
3. occurring naturally: maintained or occurring in a natural state

Yes, by definition #1.
Definitely not, by definition #2.

Sure, curiosity will make you look where information is available.
But after a year, you've gotta' know that this is not emotionally healthy behavior. It keeps you from moving forward in your life. You may be going through the motions, but there's still a part of you stuck in the past. This is how people behave now-a-days b/c social sites like FaceBook exist. I prefer the old ways when rejection was made, & people moved away from that rejection and towards the acceptance by people who DID appreciate their value.