Why did emily maynard and jef holm break up from the bachelorette?

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Nobody really knows what went on between them besides them. It could of been all the tabloids rumors of Emily sexting some guy or Jef cheating on her with his ex.
It could just be Jef might of not been ready for marriage and be a father.Tabloids are saying Jef called Emily a bad mother which i don't believe that.
I do think they both loved eachother.But something bad had to of happened since Emily isn't following Jef on twitter and instagram anymore. It just didn't work out like most these couples don't
I think the biggest problem with these couples is your always in the media tabloids, and don't really get privacy.And you don't really know your Fiance after filming ends is when you actually get to know them.You can't really know someone within 6 weeks and only 4-5 one on one dates.
I think they need to stop the engagements at the end and just have them pick someone to date.
I think it came down to they didn't really know eachother as much as they thought and just were on different paths in what they wanted and the tabloids stuff might of been to much.

I liked Jef and Emily together and was hoping it would work but it didn't. I wish them the best even if apart