Is it wrong to harass the kid who is bullying your kid?

[J]

My boy is being bullied by a child-tyrant. Well, I followed that girl and her mother home, knocked on their door, shouted at them and threatened to kill them both if they didn't stop harassing my son.
I've also sent them nasty emails and facebook messages. Should I be proud of myself?

[Zorro]

dont you think you should do something about your fat red headed kid... You might have stopped them, maybe, but you cant stop everyone. It would be far better to stick your kid on a diet. Speech classes might help too.

Oh and have him lose the helmet.

[Hans]

This isn't anything to be proud of, but is also not necessarily the "wrong" reaction either. You're his parent and you want him not to have a hard time growing up. Just don't do anything illegal and if the girl persists in harassing your son, well it really depends how she is doing that to determine how you should deal with this. Is she abusing him physically and/or emotionally? If she is physically abusing him, it's time to press charges or tell the school. Or teach him to beat her up with a gym/dojo membership.

[CassieLovee.]

Eh, i'm a little stuck on this one...threatening to kill them is a little over the top...well alot actually. Sending them messages on Facebook is even worse. I threatened to burn someones house down over Facebook along time ago, when I was young and dumb...and I was told harassing over the internet is a felony of some sort, fortunately I did not get in trouble. BUT I also understand the anger of a parent whose child is getting attacked. My son is only 4 months old, but i'm pretty sure if someone hurt my child, I could hit a kid, that sounds terrible but i'm sure i'm not the parent person who thinks like that.

[DIANE]

troll, no one would do this.

and if this isn't a troll, well just because you were bullied doesn't mean you have to bully others. grow up. you shouldn't have a kid if you act like one.

[hineata]

No