How do I keep my girlfriend interested in me & her to not start talking to guys on the side?

[Tyler LIMON]

I recently caught my girlfriend of almost two years secretly flirting with one of her old "Guy Friends" on her little sisters facebook.. that guy is the reason i made her delete her facebook. This is the 3rd time this has happened.. what do I do?

[Dovahkiin88]

You are a possessive boyfriend who thinks he has the right to control her behavior. She's better off without you.

Another suggestion: Try to make peace with whomever she flirts with and accept the fact that she's not your property. If you can't, it's not your fault. It's a compatibility issue. You will one day find a true love that you would trust, no matter what she does.

[Coyote]

First of all, you need to set parameters for yourself, and make sure your girlfriend knows what they are. What kind of behavior is unacceptable to you? What do you consider a "deal-breaker?" She won't know how to stay true to you unless you define what that means.

Second, you need to be prepared to reciprocate in kind. The parameters you set HAVE to be parameters she can expect of you as well. Don't be a hypocrite.

Third...you MADE her delete her Facebook? The more you try to control her like that, the more she's going to defy you. You don't have any right to encroach upon her as an individual like that. You need to back off and afford her a little trust. If you don't feel you can do that, or you feel the trust you afford her is being violated, you should probably both acknowledge this and break up.

[Kylee]

let her know you love her and if she doesn't believe you just try and convince show how you feel don't be afraid to it's not like she's gonna flip out on you just give it a try!!! p.s. sometimes in a relationship it takes time and persuasion to convince them so that's all you gotta do If you have any questions send an email to skittlestastetherainbowyummy@yahoo.com HAVE FUN!!!