Why does my boyfriend look up his exes?

[Bev]

My boyfriend likes to look up his ex-girlfriends online on facebook, twitter, etc. One girl in particular. We have been through this before, and it has caused serious problems in our relationship before. Now he's doing it again. If I confront him about it, he gets mad and either denies it or says I'm blowing things out of proportion. And don't advise me to leave him, I'm pregnant and we're engaged.

[screechingquilt495]

stay away from these men, they want it their way or no way.

[Janette]

just because your engaged and pregnant why do people think they cant split up being pregnant doesnt mean he cant leave you, ur pregnant so what !!!!!!! if hes looking up other girls and these being ex's hes obviously not happy with you

[Nick]

Is he pursuing a relationship with these exes, or one with you? Or is it both? It's possible he's just curious where they are in life since he was a part of it. If that is the case, it doesn't mean he wants to get back together with them, it just can be fun to follow people on social networks. If all you have is him looking at profiles, I wouldn't worry about it. IF he is sending more than friendly messages to them and trying to set up dates, then you do have an issue. I'm not trying to be mean when I say maybe he denies it because you're making a bigger deal out of the situation than what it really is. I hope for both of you that it's just innocent facebook stalkery. Good luck~

[mmm]

ok you have a serios problem on your hands - you're engaged and pregnant to a man still in love with his ex and you don't want to leave because???? um, your pregnant?

if it caused serious problems before and he's still doing it - he's not going to change - either live with the facts or do something about it - you could take the computer to your parents house and tell him he can have it back when he grows up and realizes he has a family now . . .he'll just go to his parents and stare at her . . . .get it?